In this article we are approaching a subject that many people think about when talking about sex: how does technique trump looks, and what is the importance of those two aspects in making a good sexual encounter. This is because even though sex is part of our animal instinct, we all develop certain standards with […]
Life was different back in the days when we didn’t have the internet, and getting your rocks off wasn’t as simple and cheap as going online and browsing sex dating sites. If you wanted to have a naughty chat, one of the main way you could achieve this was by calling premium phone lines and […]
We often talk about how easy it is to find people looking for sex on the internet, and that’s because it is true. Adult dating sites are so easy to join and messaging members who are there to have sex isn’t the most complicated thing in the world neither. The one thing people do get […]
By Aleena M Reyes A lot of times when people this of adult toys they think of stereotypical dildos, bondage whips, FleshLights, and a really lonely person trying to get off. While these ideas do come from somewhere, the idea of adult toys are rarely thought to be a way to increase sexual health and […]
It’s that time of year again when we all say we’re going to do things and don’t. Well in general that’s why I don’t make New Year’s resolutions, because frankly you can decide to make a positive change in your life at any point in the year. You don’t need an arbitrary date in a […]
There was a time when promiscuity was somewhat dangerous. No barrier contraception meant unwanted pregnancy was a constant risk. The transmission of STDs between you and your partner, especially partners whose sex lives might have been more active than average meant everyone outside a monogamous relationship could be touched by disease. This was especially serious […]
It’s dim, unnaturally so but slowly the light from an unseen flickering oil lamp baths her in a warm yellow glow. She has her back to me, white cotton blouse tailored, fitted to her curves. The red skirt she wears ends just above her knee leaving a provocative length of stocking clad calf between the […]
Keying in the title of this post just brought about that naughty little number from a few years ago from the Divinyls..I Touch Myself. Here’s the link if you haven’t heard it. So you’re now on my wavelength. 😉 I love it when Alex goes down on me, over the years we have been together […]
It only occurred to me this evening as I lay next to Alex as he tested a new anal vibrator on himself. And I was on my second clitoral orgasm with my fave toy that I haven’t put my finger up there in some time. Way back it was our first foray in to the […]
In the 1970s there was a lot of talk of swinging. Back then the cliché was a fruit bowl in the middle of the coffee table with car keys thrown in for each one of the ladies in turn to fish out. I say cliché because being rather young at the time I can’t vouch […]
Life in general and the adult biz in particular taught me one thing – you can never think you’ve seen it all because as soon as you think that something will pop up to surprise you. Everyone has a kink, a fetish a predilection if you will and don’t let them tell you otherwise. So, […]
Well, the FSOG bandwagon is approaching full speed isn’t it. Even ITV’s “This Morning” woke everyone up by featuring a “Beginner’s Guide to Bondage” and immediately providing the doltish “journalists” the Daily Mail with something to get irate about. I have no reservations in linking to the Daily Fail because everyone else is and it’s […]
Who doesn’t like a good blow job? Well some women for a start but that doesn’t seem to bother some men. For some, probably because of porn and some men’s inability to think outside of their groin area a blow job seems to be one of their sexual goals, often even more so than penetrative […]
Moving in with your girlfriend is a big step. It’s a point in your life and your relationship where you find out about yourself, about her and about your relationship. It can really put you to the test in terms of both your honesty with yourself and your ability to accept aspects of your partner’s […]
I’ve done a lot of things since I’ve been involved in the adult industry and not all of them are public knowledge. That’s not because I’ve done anything I’m not proud of but because of the fact that I’m proud of having discretion when it comes to both my life and personal life. I’m the […]
There’s a scene in the Sopranos where one of the characters is released from prison after a long stretch and remarks how different things are since he went inside. One of the changes is in terms of pubic hair on women. Or more specifically the lack of pubic hair on womens’ intimate areas. It’s true, […]
One of the sensory pleasures that Suze and I both enjoy is that of fresh leather. It’s a pretty natural smell (OK so I suspect that while the chemical process used to tan leather is less based on urine than it was chemical, it’s still the same process) and one that elicits an instantaneous, visceral […]
It’s very easy to become accustomed to something that is glaringly obvious to others and to a certain degree that’s exactly what happened with us and our bed. We had it for years, a pine bed frame that we had made when we moved into our last house. It had seen three mattresses come and […]
A large proportion of couples will at one point or another consider a threesome. Whether both partners consider it at the same time and whether they voice their curiosity about bringing someone else into their sex life is another thing entirely. For many a threesome is often simply a fantasy that they dare not express […]
I just returned from a week’s trip over to Cyprus. It was part work and part holiday, fortunately more pleasure than business. Alex and I had gone over with my stepmother to oversee some business relating to my late father and to tie up a few ends. It also gave me the opportunity to see […]