There’s a scene in Fight Club where Tyler Durden walks into Marla’s room and he spots a dildo on top of a chest of drawers. She says something along the lines of “Don’t feel undermined by it”. Funny cos I wouldn’t.
I love to see Suze masturbate. In fact I even enjoy hearing it as she’s in the next room now playing with herself and I think, judging from the moans, she’s just cum. She’ll want me in a few minutes – why should it be at all threatening to me. It’s just one aspect of one sex lives and it enhances the experiences we have together. I know she masturbates and although it’s very rare that I wank on my own she knows when I do it because I tell her. She enjoys me recounting it.
Of course secret masturbation is something else. If you aren’t being satisfied by your partner and don’t feel you can share your need to masturbate, or you use your need to masturbate as a way of highlighting what you see as their shortcomings; Then you have problems.
Your sex life doesn’t always have to be about penetrative sex, masturbation is something that we can all indulge in with or in front of our partners. It’s fun, naughty and free – you often find an activity like that.
Masturbating in front of your partner can bring you closer together too. It’s hard to think of many things that are more intimate than masturbating in front of your partner, or anything that requires more trust than letting them witness something that is often seen as taboo, or even sinful.
So go on, get naked and wank yourself silly in front of your partner today.