Images can be powerful things. They can mean different things to different people depending on the person’s cultural reference points and upbringing. Most of how we perceive the world is learned and shaped by our experience. Despite what you might want to believe about nature and nurture the way in which react to images and other stimuli is affected by what we experienced as we grew up.
Our basic sexuality is, I believe, wired into us. Denying it is a mistake that can only lead to unhappiness. However when we react to sexual stimulus in and around our respective orientations we can not help but be influenced by that which formed us as we developed and matured.
It is up to us if that process of maturation and development stops when we are teenagers or continues as we grow older. Personally I can’t imagine a point in my life where I stop learning and changing. To do so would be to give up the thing that defines us as human; The ability to adapt and evolve throughout our lives.
I am not the same person I was a year ago and the human being that met Suze so many years in the past is unrecognisable to the person I am today.
When you’re in a long term relationship you grow and change together, often in the most unexpected ways.
There was a time, adventurous as we were, that BDSM, anal sex and some other sexual practices would have been quite unthinkable to us. Not because we were un-accepting of the sexuality of others, but because it was so far out of our own experience.
And so it is with images. Suze found the one in set the other day and it made her stop and smile in a way that I knew meant she was having kinky sexual thoughts. The same thoughts that I am having how, reading this.
I am so lucky to have such a dirty bitch as my partner. LOL