When the weather turns cold as it has done recently it can put an end to the more spontaneous aspects of sex. Throwing off your clothes is something you do without a second thought when it’s so cold that everything is standing on end … though that does have its advantages in some cases. )

At times like this it’s best to look for ways of making love that keep you both warm, preferably without venturing out from under the duvet until you’re fully warmed up in every sense of the phrase.

I can’t think of a better way to start than one of you sliding under the covers and giving your partner a little lick with something like this.  It’s a product that will enhance any oral play you indulge in. Most of us like to lick and be licked, with this sort of tingling gel you and your partner get to enhance the already fun and decadent experience. And without venturing outside of the covers.

When you’ve warmed the bedroom up a little you could use one of the Kama Sutra range like their Weekender Kit. A few less clothes and a lot more sensuality will get you warmed up for the main event. But what should that be.

There’s a lot to be said for sharing bodily warmth with your partner when the temperature falls, but what about adding something else. Sliding a sex toy between you both and warming it with your shared heat can be very arousing. The sheer naughtiness of the act turns you both on and increases your anticipation of the fun to come. Or sliding on this sex toy and letting your fingers do the walking all over each others bodies.

But what toys? Well with so many different vibrators available you and your partner could be spoiled for choice. Some names to watch out for are Lelo and Rocks-Off. Both produce great quality toys that really work. Lelo’s range of discrete and powerful rechargeable vibrators can easily be slipped between the sheets and between her legs. Likewise with Rocks-Off with the Rock-Chick for her and their range of prostate massagers you can both enjoy some penetrative pleasure while wrapped up next to each other, just don’t get the sheets sticky.

One item I did found while looking around for products for you to try was this. It bears a resemblance to a fun factory Layaspot vibe, well that and a huge vibrating raspberry. I’ll have to get one for Suze so she can report on how it feels.

That got me thinking. In the dark evening surely you want a bit of colour and you wouldn’t lose this in the folds of the bed sheets. Bright green and buzzing with fun, just what you need to cheer you up after a dismal day.

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