Horny Cougar

StockingsI’m no pussy in the bedroom. Ok, let me rephrase that. I used to be shy to say exactly what turned me on what I wanted from my partner, mainly due to my lack of self confidence and lack of experience.

These days we both ask if there is anything we would like to try and I don’t think either of us have hit on anything which the other objected to participating in. We have indulged in light bondage, spanking, golden showers and everything in between.

It has been a voyage of discovery and self discovery, and I don’t think I am talking out of turn when I say that applies to both of us.

I certainly don’t feel that I have been demanding or over insistent about anything. In fact this is a fairly democratic household with most things. For me a relationship is about sharing, not enforcing ones ideas and principles upon the other.

It appears that we may be one of the few in this respect. I just read in the paper that a third of men are too frightened to have sex because of their forceful partners. They are pinning this down to women being more demanding and expectant because of information given in magazines and on the Internet about what to expect in terms of foreplay and other aspects of sex.

How do you feel about this? Do you feel that your partner is making unfair demands on you, or do you like the woman to take control? It would be interesting to have some feedback on this. 😉

4 thoughts on “Horny Cougar

  1. I think some men have a problem with a lot of things when it comes to relationships. its not just strong women or something as obvious as that. Women have hang-ups too. If you are with the right person you have to understand what you both want. Get that wrong and it gets complicated.

  2. I like a woman who can take control. That being said, I love it when they allow me to overpower them, display my strength.

    One issue I have with my SO is in initiation of sex. I am always initiating, always. I have told her that once, I would love it if she would approach me for sex.

    As far was what she wants and what I want…she is too hung up on taboo’s and body image…she just likes vanilla sex. I am Rocky-road with pickles and marshmallow sauce. I like to have fun, she just wants to get off….sometimes.

  3. Golden showers eh Suze! Some thing i’ve never really thought about trying! Anyway personally i’m very very shy and basically have no self confidence at all, so for me a woman taking control and telling me what she wants is exactly what i want! Besides i’m not a mind reader if i’m not told how am i supposed to know? Men and women need to talk more when having sex xxx

  4. hey suze,

    it is, as you know, all about sharing. it would be a sad day if ms. weird could not tell me to do “this” or “that” or could not request a use of a butt plug or could not grab my hand and move it to a better spot for how she is feeling at that moment. how sad would that be?

    i love it when she takes control, just as she does when i do, because we each know the other just wants to get us off and make us feel good. ms. weird is never more beautiful than when she is cuming, and i love the way she looks when consumed with great sexual sensations. that absolutely makes my day or night, or usually my morning, day, and night.

    weird

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