It’s that time of year again when we all say we’re going to do things and don’t. Well in general that’s why I don’t make New Year’s resolutions, because frankly you can decide to make a positive change in your life at any point in the year. You don’t need an arbitrary date in a […]
Those of you who have been reading this blog since its conception way back in 2005 will be acquainted with the fact that Alex and I like a bit of BDSM. Not the hardcore, welts on the cheeks of the ass type play but a little sensory interaction. One toy we haven’t tested over the […]
Well, the FSOG bandwagon is approaching full speed isn’t it. Even ITV’s “This Morning” woke everyone up by featuring a “Beginner’s Guide to Bondage” and immediately providing the doltish “journalists” the Daily Mail with something to get irate about. I have no reservations in linking to the Daily Fail because everyone else is and it’s […]
The use of one word really annoys me, “Slut”. When I was growing up it meant a woman (yes just a woman because there’s no equivalent for a man apparently) who would cavort with anyone. By which I mean anything from a grope after a drunken night out to getting naked in public and even […]
I simply refuse to mention the name of the literary trilogy yet again because it gets mentioned far too often in relation to sex and sexuality. In particular the influence the books had on the world’s attitudes towards sex and specifically bondage and BDSM. The change they wrought upon the sexuality of women, men and […]
February was a good month for product releases which saw UK sex toy manufacturers Rocks-Off release a new line of products including some for the 50 Shader’s of you. They released the Slap & Tickle Beginners S & M Kit which despite looking very pretty was also functional as you will read in the review. […]
What a busy month December turned out to be what with inviting my relatives round to Christmas lunch and then visiting them on Boxing Day. By the time New Year came round all I wanted to do was to curl up on the sofa with Alex and a bottle of Champagne. 🙂 It’s not just […]
In our last post I mentioned that I’d point you at some sensible BDSM sex kit so that’s exactly what I’ll do right now. BDSM equipment doesn’t have to be complicated, expensive or scary. Well, not unless you want it to be anyway. For beginners it’s often best to start off with the old cliché, […]
I should actually rename this July to October Roundup because I have been rather tardy/busy (delete as appropriate lol) and not featured one between those months. So I intend to address that now in this month’s summary of our sex toy testing activities. A little late I know but there’s lots of great reviews in […]
Do you think she pays him for this? Hands up all the women out there who would pay for a cute guy to come round, give them a good time (not necessarily sexually) and then just go away? Maybe the question should actually be “How many men would be willing to offer the service?”
It’s a fact that some people are from a very early age predisposed towards a BDSM lifestyle. By inclination, upbringing or a combination of both they know that they need to be sub, Dom, bottom, Top or switch. Thoughout their lives they may struggle to find the right partner and where they fit in within […]
When I was growing up a feature of my televisual entertainment was a stream of situation comedies and British comedy films from Pinewood and Elstree. One of the running themes that appeared with a low frequency but often enough to be noticeable was “White Slavery!”. Why the exclamation mark? Well because it was always uttered […]
There are some images that say a thousand words and others that just make you smile. Smile in a way that reveals a carnal intent. This is one of those images. LOL
Sometimes it’s difficult to judge where art ends and porn begins and that’s probably the way it should be. Art should provoke an emotional response, and the flow from the intellectual, through emotional to the animal instinct at the far ends of the human psychological spectrum is individual to each and every one of us. […]
Suze described how we played with a little light bondage at the weekend. Using our current favourite set of web restraints allowed me to also use one of our old favourites, a multi-stranded rubber whip that is as good at delivering subtle and glorious sensory pleasure from gentle teasing and stroking as it is at […]
What do you do on a Sunday evening to liven things up as you consider the week of work ahead of you. You get out your bondage web… I asked Alex if he would set up the we on the bed, it’s a great restraint set which is so quick and easy to use and […]
We walk a thin line in some of our fantasies. An example that springs to mind is the use of military uniforms and fantasy scenarios. Uniforms symbolise power, a power that has to be respected and obeyed without question. The penalty for not obeying is swift, often severe and occasionally arbitrary, depending on the nature […]
Since we started blogging it has at first surprised me and then refreshed me to find a huge number of people who are into BDSM, bondage, restraint, domination and submission. There are such a wide range of tastes in this area like all other forms of sexuality that almost everyone has their own take on […]
I have said in the past that sexuality is an ever-evolving thing. Well, it is for me. Maybe I had a sheltered childhood and adolescence, I don’t know, but I am still discovering new things about sex and more importantly about myself. It’s one thing being open to new ideas about sex, or anything else. […]
Tonight I think I discovered a part of me that’s laid dormant for some time due to real life issues. I like to DOMINATE! Alex had some latex covered canes delivered through our door this weekend for test and review and boy did I under estimate just how much fun you can have with a […]