Tag Archives: Sexuality

A Mirror To Our Sexual Lives

English situation comedy is a mirror that reflects the British attitude to, amongst other things, sex. It’s a distorted mirror, but a mirror nonetheless. If fact I’d go so far as to say that it isn’t as distorted as some of the publicly expressed views about sex that are heard from public figures and earnest […]

Porn Stash

I remember finding a stash of porn magazines when I was quite young, maybe 12 years old. Wow, how exciting that was! Lots and lots of naked female bodies, all very nicely photographed if I remember correctly and very, very 1970s in style. There were stories too, lots of naughty stories, I was in adolescent […]

Super Sexy

Is there a look that is universally sexy. I’d like to say yes, this image for example. It’s of a very beautiful girl taken nicely and she’s dressed in some very nice lingerie too. Yet while most people would agree that she is very attractive to some she will not press all the buttons. You […]

Fancy, Fondle Fuck

Do you know what I find really strange? Hmm? The fact that women find men attractive. That sounds more stupid than it actually is. You see I don’t fancy men, I can’t see the appeal. I can appreciate a good looking man and understand why a woman might find them. That doesn’t mean I can […]

Pioneering Perversion

Consider this. When you think of an ancient civilisation such as the Greeks or the Romans you see their society as we interpret it from the clues they left behind. The pottery, stone and metal artefacts are most durable. The clothing and items made from precious materials may survive but only if the garments do […]

Sex Without Limits

There are some things in life that are impossible to understand until you’ve experienced them. Sex is one of those things and a long term relationship is another. Suze and I have been together for a while. For both of us it’s our longest relationship by far. During that time we’ve seen a lot and […]

Hippy Chicks And Free Love Kicks

I was born from parents who still smelled of josticks and for a time at least tended to wear slightly flowery clothing. It’s possible, no probable that they therefore got up to a few interesting things in their formative years. Things that as a son I really didn’t ought to think about too carefully. However […]

The Predicted Fetish Apocalypse

We walk a thin line in some of our fantasies. An example that springs to mind is the use of military uniforms and fantasy scenarios. Uniforms symbolise power, a power that has to be respected and obeyed without question. The penalty for not obeying is swift, often severe and occasionally arbitrary, depending on the nature […]

Sexing Yourself, Expressing Your Sexuality

You know how it is, you can remember something someone said and not who said it. You’ve got a vague recollection of the orator, the context and the time it was said but no matter how hard you try you can’t pin down who said something or when. Maybe you guys can help me here […]

Fucked To The Limit And Then Beyond

I don’t think I have ever thought of the phrases “fuck me” and “hurt me” as anything other than being mutually exclusive.  You see I like a bit of a spank but I don’t like pain.  For me discomfort is unpleasant and not at all arousing, pleasure and pain being just a little separate.  😉 […]

Get Your Freak On And Be Different

Society in the UK like much of the western world is full of contradictions when it comes to sex. The rest of the world may be the same but I don’t presume to comment on a society in which I don’t live or at least have some level of understanding of when it comes to […]

Close To The Edge Of Your Sexuality

Is there anyone who has never questioned their sexuality? I truly believe not, because even for the most closed-minded of people there has to have been a moment in their lives when the thought has crossed their minds that their sexual orientation was different to that which they thought it was. For most people of […]

Kelly Suze And The Missed Lesbian Opportunity

As a teenager I was mad about Tom Cruise and watched all his films. My favourite by far had to be Top Gun with Risky Business coming a close second. I spent a lot of my bedtime moments just thinking about him and what I would love to do with him. He encapsulated everything which […]

Animal Sexuality

I like to study human behaviour I find it extremely interesting, particularly that of the male.  He tends to be more primitive in his behaviour than the female.  What do I mean by that?  Well, most males whether they care to admit it or not do things to secure a sexual partner or in some […]

Filthy Angels And Daemons

It’s tradition in the western world to associate aspects of the human personality with good or evil. Whether you regard the good and evil at play here as the result of external forces or as an inherent part of the human psyche is irrelevant, what matters is that some forms of behaviour are regarded as […]

Painful Passions

The Pain Of Pleasure Passion, lust and love, the real ones not the chocolate box crap, are so intense, so powerful that it’s a wonder people who truly encounter these feelings don’t go mad with the tensions they set up in side you. Things start out OK. Everything is exciting, fun, fresh, intense … and […]