The more intimate appraisal of the Nexus Vibro follows.
All over in the world there are people designing sex toys. Some just throw them together and hope for the best. You see unimaginative designs, shoddy build quality and a general lack of understanding of human anatomy in a lot of cheap and sometimes not so cheap toys. There seems to be a feeling amongst some manufacturers that if it vibrates and looks like a part of the human body it’ll sell.
The Nexus Vibro couldn’t be further removed from that. It has been designed for a specific gender and a specific part of the male anatomy. OK, so a cock ring is aimed at us guys but it hardly requires a medical degree to work out what shape is required to fit around an erect penis now does it.
The Nexus Vibro has been designed and built with an understanding of the male anatomy, the materials technology to implement the required stimulation and a build quality and presentation that puts most other toys we’ve seen in the market place in the shade. Don’t get me wrong here, most of the toys we’ve reviewed have been enjoyable to review and use with only minor niggles, but this is something special.
I mentioned the materials used in its construction and here’s how it breaks down:
The main body is a hard plastic. I was a little disappointed at this when I first unpacked the toy, imagining a more pliable material would have been used. Nexus know best of course because a softer toy would not have been as controllable, and not transmitted the vibrations from the bullet to where it matters.
The toy has two, well I’ll call then wings. One which you can clench between your buttocks to help stop the toy from turning when its inserted and a forward facing “wing” containing a chrome plated steel ball designed to press against your perineum. Without the ball bearing the toy would rub the perineum and because of the way in which it can become clamped in place by your sphincter muscles this would not be comfortable at all.
Finally the bullet itself. This is fabricated from stainless steel, acier inoxidable as the French would say, how appropriate. 
It appears to be turned out of a single piece of metal with a thread tapped into it. The base, containing the single push button control and the custom microchip is a single piece of stainless with an o-ring to seal the battery compartment.
When using the toy I have opted for a silicone based lube which we’ve reviewed here. The reason for this being I find it to be very effective and long lasting. One thing that anal play needs is patience. It shouldn’t be rushed. Also the silicone based lube is really effective, not requiring huge volumes of liquid that can be displaced passing through such a tight opening on a toy.
We first tried with me in my usual starting position, me on all fours, such poised with toy and lube behind me. A few drops drizzled on the Nexus Vibro and a couple on my anus and she was away, gentle massaging my puckered opening with the smooth, slightly bulbous tip of the toy. I really enjoy this bit, the prelude. It’s gentle and tender, exciting too feeling your opening slowly invaded by a toy under the control of another.
The tip slid inside and gave me a satisfyingly filled feeling. It’s not large but you’re conscious of its presence. Nice. Suze then started to gently ease the rest of the toy in. In and then out, turning it slightly, this way and that. This was partly to find the gentlest way to insert the toy and to ensure even distribution of the lube. You do need to feel your way with this toy, it’s shape is very specific and you shouldn’t attempt to just ram it home.
About one third of the way in the toy approaches its largest diameter. I’d enjoyed the insertion so far, the increasing presence inside me, coupled with the very distinct ridges along the length of the insertable shaft. There seemed to be a little resistance.
I had to ask Suze to stop because my position was wrong. I repositioned myself on my back and took over the task of sliding the toy inside by my own hand. Not only was it more easy to control when auto-inserted, but laying on my back re-oriented my internal bits and pieces, aiding the process.
You can feel the toy drop into place, pressed against your perineum on the outside and the prostate inside. The sensation put a lump in my throat and started my cock dribbling and hardening. This was prior to switching on the Nexus Vibro’s bullet vibe.
The vibe adds another dimension to the experience. It only has three settings, but is extremely powerful, and the varying frequency and amplitude of each setting appear to be designed specifically for this toy. All are very effective, but the one I found most pleasureable was a setting which began slowly, built to a crescendo then dropped to nothing again all in the space of 3-4 seconds. It makes you very conscious of the presence of the toy and makes you feel on the verge of orgasm without pushing you over the edge.
I experimented with moving around the toy with my buttocks. It’s obviously an acquired skill and one which is fun to master. As you move the toy it presses against your prostate like a firm finger inserted in your ass. A finger with a vibrator attached of course.
Suze watched me try different orientations for a while. On my side, stomach and back. Legs straight, bent … eventually I found it to be most comfortable laying on my back, heels against my buttocks, knees very slightly apart. This was fortunate as it allowed Suze’s ever friendly mouth to take my turgid member into her mouth and suck me to full erection.
I lay back, indulging myself in the sensation of the Vibro up my ass and Suze sucking the tip of my cock while gently wanking me.
I came after four or five minutes of this slow and luxurious stimulation. Suze could feel my balls tighten (she told me afterwards) and didn’t need my “Aaaaarghh!” to inform her of my imminent release. She removed her mouth but continued her slow stroke with her hand. I Came in long powerful spurts and wanted to keep ejaculating even after my balls were empty.
The toy was squeezed tightly by the involuntary and crushing contractions of the muscles in my rectum. I was tingling so intensely with blue-edged green sparks running up and down my spine that it was perhaps a minute, when this sensation had subsided before I became aware of the multiple trails of semen adhering to my stomach and chest, beginning to dry.
In conclusion, there are many anal toys out there, but if you’re a man and want to move beyond the basic butt plug then the Nexus could be the way to go. It’s strictly for men and benefits greatly from that fact. I’m looking forward to many happy hours finding out just how intense the Nexus Vibro from Bedtime Heaven can be
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