The Fun Factory Bloomy Dildo is unlike any butt plug we’ve ever tested before, not because of its construction or some innovative vibrating function, but because of its shape.

The toy is moulded into its beautiful smooth and elegant form in top medical grade silicon by those clever people at Fun Factory. Most butt plugs have a tapering shape, thinner waist at the bottom and a wide base to stop you losing it up your you know where. The Bloomy does away with the base and replaces it with a curving loop and leaf like section which presses against the perineum when in use. The main insertable end of the toy begins as a smooth bulbous shape, then widens suddenly in the form of two petal like shapes either side of the main shaft.

This is what makes the bloomy so different from other Butt plugs.

I wanted to use the Bloomy while having sex with Suze, so while she looked on I lubed up with Pjur Aqua around my anus and on the toy itself. I lay on my back on the bed and raised my knees to aid penetration.

The first section of the toy entered me easily, opening my inner and outer sphincter and leaving me feeling filled. Pressing the toy further in I felt a sudden resistance from the two “petals” half way down the shaft. After trying for several minutes to push past theses, applying extra lube and adjusting my position the Bloomy finally slid inside me the perineal stimulator resting satisfyingly against my skin.

In place the Bloomy feels great, it’s not too large and the soft caress of the perineal stimulator makes you want to clench your muscles, pulling the toy inside and pressing it against the sensitive skin between your scrotum and anus.

I lay for a while alternately relaxing and then clenching my buttocks to allow my body to get used to the new sensations. Each anal toy is different. I found the Fun Factory Bloomy to be stimulating but not too intense, soft, and yet able to press against my prostate with enough force to make me constantly aware of its presence.

Suze coaxed me to erection with a little nibbling and licking, occasionally looping round the head of my cock to gather the copious pre-cum that was oozing from it. She wanted to be fucked and I wanted to fuck her with this great little toy in my ass.

Screwing with a butt plug in intensifies the experience. The muscular movements involved in sex, particularly when fucking doggy style mean you get a prostate massage and a really intense orgasm.

Suze rolled onto her front and raised her shapely bum towards me. Her glistening pussy lips pouted at me from between her thighs. I couldn’t help lapping at her aromatic slit for a moment. She giggled as I did so and pressed back against my probing tongue.

Erection at the ready didn’t want to wait any longer and rose to my knees behind her. I shuffled between her legs, buttocks clenched. I’ve had butt plugs shoot out before when attempting this and was being cautious. I entered her and began to thrust. Her voice was muffled by the pillow that she had buried her head into. I was very excited and very large. I touched the very deepest parts of her, bouncing off her cervix and making her gasp.

Then the Bloomy flew out of my ass. Because the toy has not distinct waist at its base like most butt plugs and the involuntary muscular contractions that occur during sex it had no chance of staying in. It’s not as if I have something up my ass every night, I have a very tight sphincter, it’s just the Bloomy’s shape that let me down.

However, undeterred I continued to pound away inside Suzanne, every stroke punctuated with the sensuous collision of my groin with her buttocks. When the shattering orgasm arrived I just wished the Bloomy had remained inside me to make the moment that little bit sweeter.

Used during masturbation, or perhaps in a slightly different position the Fun Factory dildo would be perfect. It’s a quality product at an affordable price. Its design is attractive and it works well. As a beginner to intermediate level toy I highly recommend it. My two reservations are that it simply will not stay in during doggy style shagging and the leap of faith that’s required to give the toy that little extra push to get “over the hump” when inserting it.

Another winner from Fun Factory!

you can buy the Fun Factory Bloomy from Bedtime Heaven.

The glass butt plug sent to me by Nice Sex Toys is a genuinely marvelous object. Disregarding its function as a sex toy it could be a beautiful object d’arte for your living room. Though it could be rather disturbing if a your mother spotted it and said “I’ve got one of those …”.

This is not a toy for the anal beginner. Even I, as someone who has experimented with anal toys for some time found, this one is a bit of a challenge.

Whenever you indulge in anal play you have to ensure you’re relaxed an have plenty of lube to hand. The lube is especially true of silicone and glass toys, lube tends to rub off these surfaces so a nice viscous consistency. I worked a liberal amount of lube into my ass with the tip of the butt plug. I gently pushed the tip inside as I lay on my back.

The taper of the butt plug is not graduated so you get an ever increasing stretching of your anus around it as you push it home. I found that I had to remove it several times and ensure there was plenty of lube around to get it to slip into place. It was I have to say a relief to have the widest part of the toy enter me and feel my ass close around it, the base resting against the outside of my ass.

Suze was watching all this and decided to join in, gently moving the base of the plug, even tapping on the glass to send vibrations up inside me. I felt very filled by the toy but it lacked the specific stimulation a male oriented toy would have because it does specifically press against the prostate. It’s more of a generic anal toy.

I slowly stroked myself to erection and did become more aware of the mass of the glass butt plug the more erect I came. Suze waited until I was fully erect before presenting her buttocks and pouting pussy to me. It was an interesting sensation, moving around towards her in preparation for a doggy style fuck. I was apprehensive that the size of this butt plug would make movement difficult. As it turns out the amount of lube I’d used meant I was simply aware of weight of the borosilicate glass tugging slightly at my ass.

I slipped into Suze’s welcoming pussy and slowly worked up a rhythm. The butt plug was certainly adding to the experience, its weight pulling slightly at my ass and the feeling of fullness becoming even more distinct as I got closer to orgasm. When I did cum we both enjoyed it. Suze because she loves to know I have something inside me and me because of the naughtiness of using a butt plug. That feeling never seems to get old.

I was a little cautious about removing the butt plug and removed all traces of external lubrication before gently but firmly pulling it out. The removal brought a feeling of release and for some time afterwards that I had been deeply penetrated.

Like any other glass butt plug this one is easy to clean and beautiful to look at. Its weight adds to the experience of sex, though for a guy the fact that it’s not shaped specifically for the male anatomy means that you’ll not get any P-Spot stimulation to speak of.

If you want a visually appealing and challenging butt plug then this might be the one for you.

I didn’t expect Suze to object when I asked Nice Sex Toys to send me the Froggie Thai Beads for review. She does like shoving things up may ass. She enjoys seeing my reaction as first she eases a toy into me and then as she withdraws it.

The specs first: The beads are made of one piece of silicone and are therefore very soft and easy to clean. The first bead that you insert is the smallest and the subsequent four, up to the frog’s head shaped handle are each slightly larger than the last.

Towel laid out and water based lube to hand I got onto all fours and waited while Suze lubed my ass and the beads. She gently fed the first on into my ass and found that if she waited a moment the natural muscular contractions drew the beads in until the next one was just outside my opening and ready to be pushed inside with a little lube and a finger.

Each bead on it’s own, particularly the first was not particularly noticeable, but as one bead after another was drawn inside me I began to feel slightly full in my rectum. Because the Froggie Thai Beads are soft you don’t get intense stimulation when they are in place. It’s the insertion and as I was about to find out their removal that really gives the most enjoyment.

With the Thai anal beads nestling inside me I tried moving around. I was certainly aware of their presence, but these anal beads don’t give higlhy intense stimulation. You know they’re there but they aren’t going to rock your world if they stay put.

I asked Suze to remove the beads and that was when I felt the most sensation. She gently pulled the handle of the beads until the largest was pressing against my inner sphincter. I relaxed and let it escape, feeling it widen me and emerge causing me to experience a gratifying but otherwise indescribable sensation of release. Suze continued to pull and released the next three beads with similar, but slightly diminishing effect.

“Put them back in” I said.

“You want me to do that again?” replied Suze “You really enjoyed that then.”

”I always like new experiences” …

So we tried again and this time when it came to remove the beads I could sense Suze was enjoying each one emerging from my ass, released by my tight sphincter. Enjoying it almost as much as me.

This is a simple anal sex toy and one that even beginners can enjoy. You don’t have to insert the whole toy unless you really want to, but of course you might not be able to stop at one …

I’ll be sure to be trying out the Froggie Thai Beads on Suze really soon.

Most butt plug designs incorporate an insertable section, and a narrow section to prevent the plug disappearing too far up your rectum when your anal sphincters reach the wide base that is also used to retrieve the plug. The Bob has a long, smooth, extended teardrop shape with a gentle curve. The distinct narrow section is gently tapering and ends in the finger loop which you use to retrieve the toy.

Lelo don’t recommend silicone based lubes for the Bob as some will react and degrade the Bob, making it sticky and eventually making it unusable. There are many great water based lubes around now so this isn’t a problem at all.

The Bob is quite a small butt plug, so it is ideal for a beginner.

Although I was quite looking forward to using the Bob myself, Suze as always decided she would like to play with the toy … and my arse, LOL

I assumed the doggy position and felt the now familiar sensation of lube being drizzled onto my asshole. With the Bob and my opening lubed Suze pressed the toy through my sphincters with very little fuss. Some anal toys seem to take an age to master, the angle has to be just right and you seem to be constantly re-applying lube. The Bob’s small size and perfect form seem to make insertion very easy.

Suze started to play with the Bob, drawing it in and out of me. At this point you’re going to say “It’s so small he didn’t feel it”. Well you’d be wrong it is a very pleasant toy to use in this way, not least because if you insert the tip just past its widest point your body does the rest, sphincters drawing the toy inside and giving you the shuddering jolt that an anal toy gives a guy as it presses on his prostate.

Being so small I assumed that the toy would not be good for use while having sex. The ultimate test of course being fucking doggy, where most toys fall out. That wasn’t the case here. Suze left the toy inside me and gently stroked my cock, rubbing my glans and raking her fingers down my balls. My already turgid cock quickly became firm, then hard, a dewdrop of precum forming at the end.

Suze bent forward and licked the fluid from me before it could drip onto the bedclothes. I offered to fuck her and her answer was to turn offer me her buttocks, ready to fuck, doggy style. I rose to my knees, turning to face her with my cock waving in front of me.

We screwed with the Bob gently massaging my prostate. The knowledge that I had it inside me seemed to encourage Suze, she came quickly and awaited my orgasm, moaning gently with my increasingly frenzied thrusts.

I experienced an orgasm just moments later that actually defies description. With the Bob still firmly in place I cried out as if in pain, yet I was in complete ecstasy. I heard myself cry out and in the midst of an intense and gloriously enjoyable orgasm wondered why I should be making such sound in the midst of such intense pleasure. Quite, quite unique. )

So for me the Bob is an absolute winner. It’s compact and easy for a beginner to use. It’s easy to clean because of its shape and construction. It is both stimulating and manages to stay inside you during sex, resulting in a great orgasm. If you’re a guy wanting to experiment with anal stimulation then buy a Lelo Bob.

I did try to be more concise with the header but this really does sum me up. Sometimes when Alex is fucking away at me I feel like a little bit of DP. It’s the time when I am most receptive to anal stimulation, my anus opens slightly and the muscles relax, allowing smooth passage in to my rectum.

With this in mind, the next time I ordered my batch of toys from the lovely guys at Bedtime Heaven I ordered the little beauty up there in the top left corner. It’s the Internal Sensations from Doc Johnson.

The soft flexible probe is 20cm in length
Has a graduating insertable circumference ranging from the tip at 4.3cm to 13.1cm at its base, enough to please anyone
It takes 2 x AA batteries
The IS is also waterproof, which I intend to try out later. Water relaxes my anal muscles too.
But I left the best till last…it has the worlds smallest bullet tip to get to those hard to reach places. Lol

Anal is not something that can be rushed and whether it happens or not depends on circumstances I have found. You can’t always guarantee that it will happen but with such a slender toy I knew that there would be a chance of at least being DP’d.

We both watched a little bit of streaming video that night. It was a girl on girl scene with Lolly Babcock in it. Before it reached the end I was ready to fuck. So was Alex, he climbed up on to his knees and told me to bend over. How could I resist.

The lube and my Internal Sensations were sitting on top of Alex’s drawers just in case I was receptive. I pulled my nightshirt up over my head and leant over my pillows. My breasts were now free and swaying below me. I love the feel of my breasts when they are released from the confines of my bra. The sensation can only be related to that of taking a really good poo and the release you feel, for you guys. Lol

I feel like my skin can breath again, my nipples become hyper sensitive as they graze upon the pillow below. Alex pushes in to me as I squat with my ass in the air, elbows resting on the mattress. My breasts are now pushed snugly in to the pillow. He starts to fuck me, slowly at first. As he fucks, my breasts roll into pillow. My pussy is now gaping and accepting his thrusts easily but with the sweetest of friction.

The bed starts to moan and creak with the quickening pace of his thrust and my upward bounces to meet him. I’m so wet, so fucking wet. I can hear him sliding in and out of me as my juices audibly slosh. I’m watching Lolly finger fuck that blonde girl and I’m wishing she was here with me. Alex is fucking me faster now…oh fuck, I feel that orgasm building. “I’m coming!”. He hears me and fucks faster, driving in and out of me like a machine.

I release…the wetness seeps down my inner thighs. Lolly, oh Lollly…you dirty bitch! I can see her fingering her sub. She has her knees up round her ears and moans like a whore. Alex fuck me…oh yes just like that.

His pelvis is now slapping against my ass and I know he wants me to come again. “Fuck my ass!”, I shout out as he penetrates me with unrelenting lust. He stops momentarily and reaches over to his drawers. I hear the sound of the lube bottle being opened…

…then I feel something cool against my anus. A gentle push and it’s in there, cold and probing. Alex opens me up and starts to thrust once more. My pussy is ready, I’m ready. Lolly, you dirty fucker you made her come. I feel a buzz inside my ass, subtle but nice. Then the it intensifies as Alex’s cock thrusts in to me.

The buzz is now humming in my rectum, it feels good. I’m full but not too full, it’s pleasurable tingling. I’m being DP’d and I love it! The feel of hardcock in my pussy and soft vibrating probe in my ass is taking me over the edge.

I start to buck back against both the vibe and Alex, wanting both to enter me deeper, harder. Fuck me, fuck me! My pussy starts to tingle and my body is enraptured by another orgasm. I can feel Alex swelling within me, he starts to fuck harder and hits my cervix.

My ponytail sways as he continues to grind in to me.

“Ooohhhh, fuck”, I feel his cock twitch in me as he ejaculates inside my pussy. With a last moan he throws his body over my back and collapses. I fall onto my pillow unable to sustain his weight and we both lay momentarily catching our breath.

The vibe is still buzzing inside me and I ask him to turn it off. He does as we both lay on our side spooning as the grip of our release subsides. Alex removed the vibe as we melted together in the afterglow.

My ass never felt so good!

We retired to the bedroom and Alex assumed the position on top of the towel we use to avoid lube drip. It was a few weeks since he had been penetrated and abstinence makes the ass grown fonder.

He was eager as fuck to take something in his ass. I squeezed a drop of lube between the crack of his ass just above his opening, which was pouting for me to invade it. Slowly it ran down and into the dimple of his puckered little anus.

I added a couple of drops to the shiny, pre-warmed plug. For those interested I warmed it between my legs for a few minutes, the metal conducts very well so that was all it took to raise the temperature to body heat.

Gently I ran the plug around his ass, spreading the lube around both his anus and the tip of the plug simultaneously. Alex started to respond, moving his hips from side to side slightly. I began to excited at this point, I always do at the thought of pushing a plug or toy inside him. Knowing just how much he likes it.

I sat with one leg either side of his open legs and began to slowly and carefully push the metal butt plug inside. It was quite easy to insert, no resistance and the lube was lasting so no more needed to be applied.

Rotating the plug ensured that his anal walls were sufficiently coated and Alex groaned as the plug moved inside him. I noticed that his cock had started to stiffen as it dangled between his open legs and his balls were beginning to tauten.

With plug in my right hand I took a firm grip of his balls and the base of his cock and started to stroke him. He began to roll his hips and moan his appreciation. I pushed against the end of the plug once more and it was devoured by his ass once more.

He was now at the widest point and still no problems. Sometimes hairs around the anus can get caught and make the passage of the toy slightly impeded but because it is metal the lube really slicks it up.

One more gentle push and the butt plug disappeared inside him, leaving only the wide base outside his body. I continued to stroke his cock, he was now quite hard, almost fully erect. The towel below him was drizzled with pre cum which was now freely running from the end of his cock.

I ran my finger across the tip and scooped it up. It tasted wonderful and I felt as horny as hell!

Alex turned to face me on his knees and asked if I would suck his cock. Of course I would! It was pointing skyward and his balls were practically up into his groin they were so tight. I started to lick the tip and then swirled my tongue around the top. This made Alex shiver, he loves it.

I then placed my tongue underneath his cock and sucked down hard on him, causing his frenulum to grind against my warm wet tongue. Christ, he was hard, I could clearly feel the definition of his helmet on the tip of my tongue as it sprouted from his hard shaft.

Alex started to buck and fuck my mouth not too deep but enough to ensure his foreskin was being moved too and fro. I stared to groan in response to his groans as he bucked away at my pursed lips.

His cock was now burying itself inside my throat and I took hold of his balls and pulled gently on them as he worked my mouth and throat. I was laying on my side with my legs apart for balance. My pussy was already moist by the time I started to suck him off and now I could feel the moisture making it’s way down my right inner thigh. I leaned up on my right arm in front of his groin still sucking away at that thrusting cock.

“Suze, can I come in your mouth?”, exclaimed Alex between his moans. He is such a gentleman. Lol I pulled back off his erection and answered “Yes” ,as quickly as I could before returning to my task.

Alex began to fuck faster in and out of my mouth and I could almost feel him swelling, preparing to shoot his load in to me. I began to meet his thrusts with bobs of my head, my tongue working his frenulum all the time.

Then with an almighty groan and a final thrust he shot his warm cum into my mouth. I kept my tongue depressed against the bottom of my mouth to collect it in the well made by my tongue. He tasted warm and slightly salty.

As the last spurt landed Alex withdrew from my mouth and lent in to kiss me. “Let me taste”, he asked. I opened my mouth and gave him a wide open kiss allowing his cum to enter his open mouth and hit his waiting tongue.

We kissed for a moment exchanging his seed and then I backed off. He had a tell tale dribble of cum running down from the left corner of his mouth. I swallowed my share and gave him a smile.

This was the first time we had snowballed and it had tipped me over the edge. I was so horny that my favourite vibe had to come out to play…

The Seven Creations Heavy Metal Butt Plug is available from Bedtime Heaven.

Alex’s thoughts …

We’ve been wanting to try out a metal toy for ages, so when this one arrived we were more than ready to try it out.

The plug has an insertable length of 92mm and maximum diameter of 33mm. It’s not a huge butt plug, I prefer the stimulating to the unbelievably challenging when it comes to anal toys. So just right then.

The weight of the toy was initially something of a let-down. It was obviously hollow so I decided to see just how hollow. I tied a piece of cotton to the plug, filled a glass full of water, placed the glass in a measuring jug and lowered in the butt plug slowly.

The butt plug displaced 55ml of water and weighs 164g, giving a density of 2.9818 g/cm2. As steel is 7.4gcm2 and stainless steel is around 8.0 it’s obvious there’s a lot of fresh air inside it somewhere.

As I had always assumed it would be solid my initial excitement at the receipt of the butt plug was therefore quelled.

Not for long though.

You see, the butt plug weighs quite enough to make its presence felt when inserted. Extra weight would have other disadvantages too, as I’ll explain later. Add to this its intrinsically hygienic nature and the ability to use it hot and cold without fear of its degradation (even if you boil it in water to sterilize it) and you’re on to a winner.

Suze described our first use of the butt plug beautifully here. So I’ll not repeat what she said. What she didn’t mention is that when I fucked her with the butt plug in I found that its weight massaging my prostate really enhanced the experience. Because I’d been well lubbed-up the plug was on the verge of falling out. Hence my previous statement that extra weight would have been a disadvantage, any heavier and it probably would have popped out.

This is a toy that I will be using again, it’s practical, hygienic, effective and fun.

And for those of you who think I’m rather anal measuring the density of a sex toy … what do you expect when I’m writing about a butt plug? LOL

All over in the world there are people designing sex toys. Some just throw them together and hope for the best. You see unimaginative designs, shoddy build quality and a general lack of understanding of human anatomy in a lot of cheap and sometimes not so cheap toys. There seems to be a feeling amongst some manufacturers that if it vibrates and looks like a part of the human body it’ll sell.

The Nexus Vibro couldn’t be further removed from that. It has been designed for a specific gender and a specific part of the male anatomy. OK, so a cock ring is aimed at us guys but it hardly requires a medical degree to work out what shape is required to fit around an erect penis now does it.

The Nexus Vibro has been designed and built with an understanding of the male anatomy, the materials technology to implement the required stimulation and a build quality and presentation that puts most other toys we’ve seen in the market place in the shade. Don’t get me wrong here, most of the toys we’ve reviewed have been enjoyable to review and use with only minor niggles, but this is something special.

I mentioned the materials used in its construction and here’s how it breaks down:

The main body is a hard plastic. I was a little disappointed at this when I first unpacked the toy, imagining a more pliable material would have been used. Nexus know best of course because a softer toy would not have been as controllable, and not transmitted the vibrations from the bullet to where it matters.

The toy has two, well I’ll call then wings. One which you can clench between your buttocks to help stop the toy from turning when its inserted and a forward facing “wing” containing a chrome plated steel ball designed to press against your perineum. Without the ball bearing the toy would rub the perineum and because of the way in which it can become clamped in place by your sphincter muscles this would not be comfortable at all.

Finally the bullet itself. This is fabricated from stainless steel, acier inoxidable as the French would say, how appropriate. It appears to be turned out of a single piece of metal with a thread tapped into it. The base, containing the single push button control and the custom microchip is a single piece of stainless with an o-ring to seal the battery compartment.

When using the toy I have opted for a silicone based lube which we’ve reviewed here. The reason for this being I find it to be very effective and long lasting. One thing that anal play needs is patience. It shouldn’t be rushed. Also the silicone based lube is really effective, not requiring huge volumes of liquid that can be displaced passing through such a tight opening on a toy.

We first tried with me in my usual starting position, me on all fours, such poised with toy and lube behind me. A few drops drizzled on the Nexus Vibro and a couple on my anus and she was away, gentle massaging my puckered opening with the smooth, slightly bulbous tip of the toy. I really enjoy this bit, the prelude. It’s gentle and tender, exciting too feeling your opening slowly invaded by a toy under the control of another.

The tip slid inside and gave me a satisfyingly filled feeling. It’s not large but you’re conscious of its presence. Nice. Suze then started to gently ease the rest of the toy in. In and then out, turning it slightly, this way and that. This was partly to find the gentlest way to insert the toy and to ensure even distribution of the lube. You do need to feel your way with this toy, it’s shape is very specific and you shouldn’t attempt to just ram it home.

About one third of the way in the toy approaches its largest diameter. I’d enjoyed the insertion so far, the increasing presence inside me, coupled with the very distinct ridges along the length of the insertable shaft. There seemed to be a little resistance.

I had to ask Suze to stop because my position was wrong. I repositioned myself on my back and took over the task of sliding the toy inside by my own hand. Not only was it more easy to control when auto-inserted, but laying on my back re-oriented my internal bits and pieces, aiding the process.

You can feel the toy drop into place, pressed against your perineum on the outside and the prostate inside. The sensation put a lump in my throat and started my cock dribbling and hardening. This was prior to switching on the Nexus Vibro’s bullet vibe.

The vibe adds another dimension to the experience. It only has three settings, but is extremely powerful, and the varying frequency and amplitude of each setting appear to be designed specifically for this toy. All are very effective, but the one I found most pleasureable was a setting which began slowly, built to a crescendo then dropped to nothing again all in the space of 3-4 seconds. It makes you very conscious of the presence of the toy and makes you feel on the verge of orgasm without pushing you over the edge.

I experimented with moving around the toy with my buttocks. It’s obviously an acquired skill and one which is fun to master. As you move the toy it presses against your prostate like a firm finger inserted in your ass. A finger with a vibrator attached of course.

Suze watched me try different orientations for a while. On my side, stomach and back. Legs straight, bent … eventually I found it to be most comfortable laying on my back, heels against my buttocks, knees very slightly apart. This was fortunate as it allowed Suze’s ever friendly mouth to take my turgid member into her mouth and suck me to full erection.

I lay back, indulging myself in the sensation of the Vibro up my ass and Suze sucking the tip of my cock while gently wanking me.

I came after four or five minutes of this slow and luxurious stimulation. Suze could feel my balls tighten (she told me afterwards) and didn’t need my “Aaaaarghh!” to inform her of my imminent release. She removed her mouth but continued her slow stroke with her hand. I Came in long powerful spurts and wanted to keep ejaculating even after my balls were empty.

The toy was squeezed tightly by the involuntary and crushing contractions of the muscles in my rectum. I was tingling so intensely with blue-edged green sparks running up and down my spine that it was perhaps a minute, when this sensation had subsided before I became aware of the multiple trails of semen adhering to my stomach and chest, beginning to dry.

In conclusion, there are many anal toys out there, but if you’re a man and want to move beyond the basic butt plug then the Nexus could be the way to go. It’s strictly for men and benefits greatly from that fact. I’m looking forward to many happy hours finding out just how intense the Nexus Vibro from Bedtime Heaven can be

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1. There is no one sensation that gives pleasure, it’s a combination of five. First the stimulation of the entrance to your ass. The soft skin is sensitive and the feeling of the lube running down it, a finger spreading the lube and then that same finger or perhaps a toy sliding inside is very, very pleasurable. Once inside four other sensations add to the first. The tightness of your sphincter around the object being inserted is in itself enjoyable. The movement of an object both at the entrance to and deep inside your colon can take my breath away. The feeling of being filled by something is in a strange way rather comforting. And finally, with the right toy, or expertly placed finger the massaging of the prostate can be very intense.Depending on the toy or digit(s) inserted the mix of these sensations varies, sometimes they are simply comforting, on other occasions highly arousing, taken to the extreme their intensity can be quite painful.
2. Lube is very important. If the object to be inserted is relatively small, then copious amounts of saliva will often suffice, but for the most part water based lube, plenty of it, is required. Related to this is the necessity to keep those annoying little hairs around your entrance in check, pulling those inside is, I imagine never having been waxed, like having your pubes waxed in slow motion. Torture. Because they get dragged inside with the toy, even if you’re well lubed.
3. It’s not possible for an anal virgin (being fucked by a man with his cock/toy, or woman with a toy) to have said instrument of pleasure “just slide inside” their arse. Well not unless they have a particularly accommodating arse and it (unlike most other human being’s) excretes its own lube. With a certain combination of cock size and receiving back passage it may be possible to exit the vagina of your partner and enter her ass aided only by the lubrication of her juices, but on the odd occasion that my aim has been awry during sex, Suze’s rectal sphincter has been a door most definitely closed to intrusion. Try sticking anything of any size in either of ours without appropriate preparation (lube, lube and more lube) and the burning pain that ensues will ensure the giver is left in no doubt as to the intensity of the burning pain inflicted on the receiver.

The insertion of anything into your partner’s body is by definition an invasive act. Because of that, engaging in anal play for a man or a woman requires trust in your partner. I find each experience is different, on one occasion gentle stimulation is all that I want, on another I feel the need to be pushed a little further than I have been before.

The latest toy from Bedtime Heaven was quite unlike anything we’d tried before, either in shape of construction and placement of the vibrating component. Feeling Suze ease it inside me was a fantastic sensation. The cool lube running down the crack between my cheeks, the gentle stimulation as she used the tip of the toy to collect the lube and spread it evenly around its tip and my anus … it made me want to push back and take it straight inside.

However I tend to leave Suze in charge when we play like this, she can toy with me and I trust her to do that. There’s that word again, trust. Unlike the walls of the vagina the colon is relatively delicate and easily damaged. Not that you’d believe it from the way some porn stars treat each other.

She gently worked the toy into me. She enjoys watching my reactions, and I enjoy letting her play with me, watch my arousal grow. She touches me gently, especially when the stimulation is at its most intense. That, I find the most exquisite pleasure as it acts as a striking counterpoint to the fiery maelstrom of sensations the penetration creates.

As it happened, the shape of the toy, the effectiveness of the vibration and perhaps my disposition at the time we tried the toy meant I was not able to enjoy it for as long or as deeply as I would have liked. Not that that is a criticism though. It was a delicious precursor to sex with Suze, and it means we’ll have to try it again to see how much further we can push the boundaries together.

The initial insertion was greatly enjoyed. The first ball’s entrance was even more arousing, the contraction of my sphincter as it disappeared inside was both gratifying and comforting. I could feel each of the gentle ribs as they rippled into me. Taking the second ball was just beyond what would have been enjoyable. This time at least.

As for Suze and anal … as Suze puts it, she likes it as an occasional accompaniment, a side dish if you will, but can’t envisage it as the main course. Not yet.

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I squirted a generous amount of lube down Alex’s crack and watched his anus contract as it ran over it, tickling his asshole. His sphincter now glistened and begged to be entered and I wasn’t going to let him down. I squeezed a large blob of lube on to the tip of the anal vibe and ran the tip gently around his puckered anus. Alex groaned his appreciation and gyrated his hips.

Vibe in my right hand and speed control in my other I turned the dial on the control to a low hum and eased the tip of the vibe inside his tight ass. Spreading the lube I gently fucked his ass with the very tip of the vibe working it inside, Alex moaned.

I knew this one was going to be good. It is one of the few vibes I have seen which actually has the vibrating component mounted in the tip rather than the base. Ideal for stimulation of the male g-spot. Lucky Alex. As the first clear ball approached his anus I reached for the lube and drizzled it over the top of the vibe easing it’s passage in to his passage.

I worked that vibe in and out of his ass trying to get as much lube in there as I could before pushing the first ball inside him. I was getting excited at the thought of watching him swallow that baby up. I played with the speed control turning the frequency up high and then down again…sometimes turning the vibration off altogether, creating a variation in stimulation.

Alex seemed to be getting off on this and his cock started to dribble on to the bedsheet. With a gentle push the first ball entered his anus and he gave a moan of lustful pleasure. I love to make him moan and groan, I have said this before but it gives me a sense of sexual power over him. The ability to pleasure him so directly, I suppose comparable with the joy a guy can bring to a woman when he enters her and fucks her. It’s a huge turn on for me.

His anus had now swallowed up the ball and the vibe was locked in place. This is a good thing because it then allows me to use my hand for other things than aiming the vibe inside him. That must be the Dom in me. *giggle* I grabbed hold of his balls and gave them a gentle tug adding to his sensory stimuli, Alex rocked his hips too and from working that vibe inside himself and without it slipping out, due to the “lock-in” effect of the jelly ball.

I wanted to see his expression so I positioned myself crossed legged to his left side, watching his face contort and his eyes roll as I played with the control. Fuck! That makes me horny.

His cock was now constantly oozing pre cum and I was so wet. I ran my fingers over his erect cock and licked them clean. He tasted so good. Then I reached between my legs to see just how moist I had become.

My fingers were immediately slicked with my own juices, I withdrew my fingers from my pussy and offered them to Alex’s mouth. He parted his lips and sucked my fingers in running his tongue over each one from tip to base.

I swear I get so close to coming when I fuck him up the ass, one day I’m sure I will go all the way but it’s his time and I don’t want to take that from him. I moved around to reach for the lube once more and noticed that the earlier application of lube was running down over his perineum. I took some of the toilet roll and tenderly wiped it up before it ran down on to the bedsheet. That is the problem with using copious amounts of lube, it does tend to get everywhere but better that than hurt him.

I applied some more to the top of the vibe at the point it entered his anus. I desperately wanted to see him take one more ball on that vibe. Alex vocalised his appreciation as I applied a small amount of pressure to the end and tried to ease it in further. Ridge by ridge the vibe slipped inside him and I had to control myself from pushing it in too quickly or too far.

It takes an incredible amount of self control not to just push that vibe in to him and fuck his ass off. But I didn’t want to hurt him, what would be the sense in that…neither of us would enjoy the experience and that is not what good sex is about.

Cool, calm and collectedly I took my time easing that vibe in to him, still varying the speed for maximum effect. Watching him eat up band after band of the vibe, my pussy was practically pounding as it swelled with the excitement. Girls you know what I mean when I say it had a pulse as the blood flooded every capillary of my labia and each corpuscle dancing around my engorged clit.

I held my breath as the second ball started to enter his sphincter…but then it stopped, Alex said that any more would be uncomfortable for him. I felt a sense so disappointment, quickly followed by a need to work at it until he could take two of the balls inside his colon. Now just wasn’t the time, later probably would be…

I’m a patient girl and after all sex is about responding to your partner and enjoying new experiences together.

And I’m sure this toy will be tested again…

…no it will!

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We started with Suze probing me with a well lubed finger, then on to a small vibe. We have a jelly butt plug too. All of these have their advantages and disadvantages, but the latest toy from our supplier has to be the best.

The vibrating butt plug combines the vibro-stimulation of the small vibrator, with the larger diameter of a butt plug and a “neck” to help hold it in. The bonus of remote means there’s a fun element to its use that adds to the relaxation, a vital part of anal play.

I was initially a little disappointed at the size of the plug. It’s diameter is only a little greater that the small vibe Suze occasionally uses on me. But the vibration more than makes up for that.

As I felt her slide the tip of the toy into my anus (vibe off at this point) I was already becoming aroused. It’s really exciting to try out a new toy and when I’m in the right mood for anal play the thought of her sliding something inside has me grinning from ear to ear.

Because of its smaller size the plug on its own would be useful for someone wanting to experiment with anal penetration for the first time. The sensation of its soft surface probing me gives me a thrill. Because of the plug’s modest size it slid in with little fuss, yet I could feel it inside me. For those of you who haven’t tried anal toys of this sort it’s at first and unusual feeling that I for one quickly became used to. It puts a lump in my throat, as well as somewhere else.

Anyway, back to the testing. When Suze had slid the plug fully inside me I felt rather content in a sexually expectant sort of way. When I’m in this position she moves her fingers gently over the taught skin of my buttocks. I find this a most sensual experience as her nails trace pathways from my lower back, across my butt and delve into my inner thighs and scrotum.

Suze then tried experimenting with the remote. The initial burst of the vibe was wonderful, it sent vibrations across my perineum and into my taught balls and scrotum. After a few seconds though you seem to become desensitised to the stimulation. It’s still pleasant, but not as intense. Suze found that turning the device on and off had the best effect.

It’s not the most powerful vibe either, which I was a little disappointed about at first. Because of its smaller size and lower power than other models I did not get the intense prostate stimulation I was expecting.

However, as I said at the very beginning, I have to be in the right mood for anal play. Sometimes I don’t fancy it at all, sometimes I prefer gentle to full-on and this was one of those times so the toy and the mood coincided and made for an extremely pleasurable experience for both of us.

The interaction between us as Suze controlled the insertion and vibration of the plug was new and very satisfying for both of us. My only real disappointment was that the plug would not stay in as I moved position. I have a tight anal sphincter, but even so I was not able to fuck Suze with the plug in place. It just popped out.

So in summary:

Pros

A great anal toy for beginners soft and not too big, easy to insert

The extra benefit of vibration for little more than you’d pay for a standard, non-vibe plug.

Remote control! Oh the fun you’ll have with this, as will your play partner.

Cons

Unless you’ve got a sphincter of spring steel this toy will not stay in place as you move around. So stay were you are and let your partner tease you as Suze did to me.

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Is it strange that a toy ordered primarily for me should first be reviewed by Suze? Not really she enjoyed the experience of using the Sensual Bender on me as much as I enjoyed being the recipient of the anal probe.

I think she summed the toy up well. Too well in fact as she pretty much covered every aspect of its construction and use. I told her off for that at the time she wrote the review. I mean what else is there to say?

From my point of view there are a few things to add.

Suze knows that I like to enjoy anal play slowly and with plenty of lube. We haven’t indulged lately, mainly because of lack of time, and you do need time to ensure that the experience is enjoyable. My anus is tight and needs to be relaxed to be penetrated. Then of course there needs to be a large amount of lube involved.

The Sensual Bender is perfect for the job for a number of reasons. As Suze mentioned, the plastic is soft, a jelly type material in fact, but with a jointed metal “spine” giving both rigidity for insertion and infinite flexibility allowing you to shape the toy to reach the areas you want to stimulate.

I really do love the prelude to anal play. Suze is so good at it, gentle, careful and sensual. She lubed up the bender on its tip and first few ridges, then teased my anus with it. At the same time she ran her nails gently across and around my upturned buttocks. This really relaxes me and builds up the feeling of anticipation before she inserts a toy. By the time she gently eased the first “bead” into my anal sphincter I was sporting a semi and aching for my ass to be penetrated.

The toy’s size is graduated but quite large from the tip so Suze was only able to get 6 of the beads inside me before the sensation was too intense. The smooth shape of the beads and their soft construction means you can push the boundaries without sudden and uncomfortable increases in size spoiling the moment.

The smooth shape also makes the toy easy to clean.

We didn’t fully explore the range of shapes that you can create with the Sensual Bender anal toy, though even with the limited experimentation we were able to carry out we found that the toy is very effective and promises more fun in the future.

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The sensual bender is lovely to hold it has the firmness afforded by it’s wonderful bendy internal spine offset by the soft and sensual feel of the pliable jelly outer. It comprises of 11 balls along it’s length with a circumference ranging from 11 cm at the base to 8 cm at it’s tip. The total length of the probe is 24 cm. I was eager to see just how many I could insert inside Alex’s tight little ass.

I placed the towel on the bed and he assumed the position in front of me, ass stuck in the air, anus pouting and tempting me to fuck it. Sitting cross legged behind him with a his legs stretching out either side of mine he was in the perfect position for entry.

The lube was already placed on the bed along with a roll of toilet tissue for mopping up excess lube which is a necessary piece of equipment for anal play. Lube, lube and more lube.

It’s a while since Alex had any anal action (too long) and I intended to be gentle with him, despite the fact that I was as horny as hell. My primal urges were to fuck him hard whilst wanking at his cock.

I drizzled lube down between the groove in his ass cheeks and watched it descend towards his pink puckered hole. Then I took the bendy probe and worked the lube around his anus with the tip. He loves this.

Then with a gentle push against the tension of his sphincter the end popped inside. I ran the lube around his anus and the sides of his ass cheeks with my index finger, ensuring no pulling on his flesh as the probe worked it’s way in to him.

The lube had now started to run down his perineum which is where the folded towel comes in handy to soak up and drips. With the probe in my right hand I grabbed his balls with my fee hand and rolled them as I added a little force to the end of the probe, easing it between his cheeks and in deeper.

Alex was now groaning and enjoying the full feeling he was sensing as his rectum was taken. I continued to massage his balls I he took in the 3rd jelly ball. I was getting quite excited sitting behind him watching his cock get bigger as I probed his ass. My pussy was quite moist and if my hands had not been covered in lube I would have reached over for my bullet vibe (next time).

As the third ball was snapped in to his anus, I could hear the pop and squelch as his sphincter enclosed around it. The wonderful thing about the shape of this toy is that it holds itself in position, as the anus locks in each ball and with the probe being bendable it makes a great angled handle.

The whole experience was now becoming very intense for Alex and he asked me to remove the anal probe as he panted with the overwhelming feedback from his anal muscles and prostate. His cock was now dribbling down on to the towel…was doing the trick and massaging his prostate.

Slowly each ball popped back out of his ass and Alex flipped himself over on to his back and asking me to push it back inside him. Who was I to say no. I lubed him up once again and drizzled more lube on to the probe, then started to push it inside him.

I watched in delight and sexual arousal as his ass swallowed up the balls one, two, three…more lube. “God I’m wet”. Four, then five…fuck this was turning me on. Then the sixth entered his ass. I took a firm grip of his semi stiff cock and began to work the foreskin up and down. I took a hold of his balls in my left hand and alternated between pulling and squeezing them. Another little trick he likes. His cock was getting very hard.

“I’ll come if you keep that up!”, he exclaimed and the immediately flopped back on to the bed. A sacrifice I would just have to make, him not fucking me that is.

My need right now was to see him shoot his load right there in front of me.

I speeded up the action on his cock, now with tightened grip I pumped away at him. He started to contort and groan, his orgasm wasn’t far away. Letting go of the grip on his balls I started to rub my clit whilst keeping up the unrelenting masturbation of his cock.

My clit was swollen and quite firm under my finger as I rolled it from side to side, I was close too. The visuals had brought me close to the edge before I started to play with myself. Alex started to buck against my strokes and with an almighty “Agghhhhh”, he lifted his shoulders of the bed several times and the first spurt of cum issued from the tip of his cock.

He came again and again, peppering his stomach with his white, glutaneous fluid. I was sat wide eyed rubbing my clit for all it was worth, my fingers were now skating over my clit with the wetness of my pussy. I twitched, once, twice and then…JESUS! I came all over my fingers, they were warm and wet.

I slumped back on to the pillows and raised my fingers to my mouth…

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