{"id":1124,"date":"2008-05-03T11:46:07","date_gmt":"2008-05-03T11:46:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.alexsuze.com\/?p=1124"},"modified":"2008-05-03T11:46:09","modified_gmt":"2008-05-03T11:46:09","slug":"showering-shaving-and-sexuality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/?p=1124","title":{"rendered":"Showering, Shaving and Sexuality"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" vspace=\"5\" align=\"left\" width=\"328\" src=\"\/images\/speedo.jpg\" hspace=\"5\" height=\"331\" style=\"width: 328px; height: 331px\" \/>Men and women don&#8217;t often show their naked bodies to complete strangers in public places. In most countries that&#8217;s an arrestable offence, unsurprisingly. There is one place however that they do, and on a regular basis. The changing rooms after physically demanding sports.<\/p>\n<p>The communal showers after physical exertion are one of the few places where human beings get to see a range of physical forms that would be otherwise shrouded from their eyes by clothing. Even there of course to stare at someone&#8217;s body is not what you&#8217;d call acceptable behaviour, but even the occasional glance can be enlightening.<\/p>\n<p>I mention this because something struck me while showering after swimming yesterday. It&#8217;s about body hair.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t have a lot of the stuff. Yes I have it in all the right places, armpits, groin, legs (though not so much yet, but increasing by the year and a very little bit on my chest. But that&#8217;s not entirely true, because Suze shaves my pubic hair once each week, so I don&#8217;t sport anything more that a light covering of pubic hair.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s like being prepubescent again, in the hair aspect at least. And without the angst of course. I suspect it&#8217;s the same for all boys, we can&#8217;t wait to get our first pubic hair. I remember at school actually having a friend ask me (we were in different classes so had never undressed together) if I had pubes. I told him yes, which was true, I did. But only if you looked at the very fair fine hairs from a certain angle, and in a certain light. I wasn&#8217;t lying, just not being entirely truthful.<\/p>\n<p>I suppose I must have had a bit of a thing about it. I was the second youngest in the year and one of the latest to begin to show signs of puberty. It didn&#8217;t really bother me, but I was conscious of the late-onset of the hormonally driven metamorphosis that would drag me out of childhood and into the adult world.<\/p>\n<p>How odd that a few short years later and I&#8217;m now shaving off those long wished for hairs because I prefer it without them.<\/p>\n<p>Tags: <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/technorati.com\/tag\/pubic+hair\">pubic hair<\/a>, <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/technorati.com\/tag\/puberty\">puberty<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Men and women don&#8217;t often show their naked bodies to complete strangers in public places. In most countries that&#8217;s an arrestable offence, unsurprisingly. There is one place however that they &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/?p=1124\" class=\"more-link\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1124"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1124"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1124\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1124"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1124"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1124"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}