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Attitudes towards sex change over time, and not always for the better. One thing that has changed, and in a positive way, is our attitude toward sex toys.<\/p>\nAttitudes towards sex change over time, and not always for the better. One thing that has changed, and in a positive way, is our attitude toward sex toys.<\/p>\n
At one time, if your woman used a dildo you’d be hurt, upset, angry, maybe even threatened. Now it’s more common to want to get the video camera out and make a permanent record of your girlfriend enjoying her favourite toy for you to both masturbate over later.<\/p>\n
Rather than regarding sex toys as perverse we now see them as a normal but naughty way of enjoying ourselves.<\/p>\n
Here’s where I think women are ahead of men in the sexual liberation stakes.<\/p>\n
It’s generally accepted that a dildo is now part of many women’s sexual experience and may be a regular cause of their orgasms. What isn’t so accepted and indeed is often ridiculed is the use of sex toys by men.<\/p>\n
Men’s sex toys are catching up with the range and sophistication of those available to women but still lag behind. Is this because male masturbation was always regarded as a heinous sin to be discouraged? Yet female masturbation avoided this sort of denunciation because “girls don’t masturbate”?<\/p>\n
Whatever the reason boys toys lag behind those you can buy for girls, often being expensive or badly designed and falling back to modelling them on the form of a woman. When I say form of a woman I mean external form because even if your new masturbator is modelled on a particular porn star the internal contours of the toy will be smooth or abstract and based on non-realistic ribs and bobbles to stimulate you.<\/p>\n
These non-natural ridges and bumps are not necessarily a bad thing. Slavishly trying to copy nature has been a mistake that a lot of sex toys creators have made. Fucking a truly realistic pussy sex toy can be fun, even if the inside is not modelled on a real vagina.<\/p>\n
All that does pose a question. Do you like to watch your partner masturbate with sex toys? Or does the mere thought of it turn you on?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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