{"id":14702,"date":"2011-07-16T16:55:06","date_gmt":"2011-07-16T16:55:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/alexsuze.com\/?p=14702"},"modified":"2011-07-16T16:51:03","modified_gmt":"2011-07-16T16:51:03","slug":"watching-porn-and-why-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/?p=14702","title":{"rendered":"Watching Porn, And Why Not?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft\" style=\"float: left; border: 0; margin: 5px;\" src=\"\/images\/freakedoutwoman.jpg\" alt=\"Freaked Out\" width=\"200\" height=\"250\" \/>It comes as no surprise that Suze is quite open minded when it comes to sex and sexuality. I&#8217;ll give most things a try once. You notice I put most things. Lol<\/p>\n<p>Watching porn comes as second nature now. Gone are the days of getting those feelings of and embarrassment when viewing it in the company of a guy. I used to go red and feel a little flustered. Now I can sit and watch some of the most hardcore stuff and not bat an eyelid.<\/p>\n<p>Along with the embarrassment used to be the insecurity that my boyfriend was ogling another woman. And from that springs a strange kind of jealousy. A jealousy that shouldn&#8217;t really have developed, it wasn&#8217;t like he was ever going to bump in to this woman and be seduced by her.<\/p>\n<p>Still, all the same I did feel envious. I suppose that came from my own insecurity at the time. Probably the result of some really bad relationships in the past.<\/p>\n<p>Nowadays I don&#8217;t have any of those hang-ups and Alex and I can enjoy a good porn film together. And then afterwards discuss it and review it. How times have changed. Lol<\/p>\n<p>What brought me to this? Well, I just read the following question in the Daily Mail and it triggered this post.<\/p>\n<p>Read the question and see how you would answer the woman.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;My boyfriend wants me to watch a porn film with him. He thinks it will liven up our sex life, but I have no interest in pornography and fear it&#8217;s the slippery slope to ever more kinky sex.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>On the other hand, I don&#8217;t want him sneaking off and watching this kind of stuff on his own. Will it seem prudish if I say no? What should I do?&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Porn Agony Aunt Advice\" href=\"http:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/article-1199209\/Am-I-prude-refusing-watch-porn-films-boyfriend.html?ITO=1490\" target=\"_blank\">Now check out the advice given and see if you agree<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It comes as no surprise that Suze is quite open minded when it comes to sex and sexuality. I&#8217;ll give most things a try once. You notice I put most &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/?p=14702\" class=\"more-link\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[35,25],"tags":[505,3374,3373],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14702"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14702"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14702\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14703,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14702\/revisions\/14703"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14702"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14702"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14702"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}