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It is always gratifying when your contribution to the adult world helps someone to gain a greater understanding and acceptance that otherwise they may not have experienced.\u00a0 After all why do I write about sex and sexuality for you all to read and enjoy, yes it\u2019s an outlet for my high sex drive but I also like to break down some of those barriers and introduce you to new ways of looking at sex and sexuality.<\/p>\n
I consider my part to be as a gentle persuader and informer rather than a sexual dictator telling you this how it is.\u00a0 Just like good sex can\u2019t be forced and needs to coerced with foreplay and a gentle touch.<\/p>\n
The rewards are many but none more so than discovering that you have helped someone expand their repertoire of sexual pleasure through your writing.<\/p>\n
One such example of this is a regular reader who I have been in dialogue with for a while now who wrote the email below and gave their permission for me to publish it in full.<\/p>\n
\u201cthanks to your sex blog i found myself accepting of the fact its ok for normal people to go into a shop anyways, i found myself with a few choices and went for the expensive, but compact rocks off naughty boy… 1 bottle of booty lube, a box of buzz fresh wipes and a spare battery (duracell size N) plus another item from the 3 for 2 offer (along with the lube and wipes) later, i was sorted… and i have to say now i have the hang of the motion required to get a really good result… OH MY GOD!! i am amazed it took me so long to buy 1!!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n It makes me so happy to realise that I am now making a \u201creal\u201d difference to the way that people view adult toys.\u00a0 No longer is anal play seen as a gay pastime but as an addition to normal sexual activity and pleasure.<\/p>\n We only live this life once so enjoy it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" It is always gratifying when your contribution to the adult world helps someone to gain a greater understanding and acceptance that otherwise they may not have experienced.\u00a0 After all why … Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[3705],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16928"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16928"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16928\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16933,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16928\/revisions\/16933"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16928"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16928"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16928"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nthat sells that sort of thing and pay for a toy of an adult nature … <\/em>the fact that [where I live] is still somewhat close-minded as regards a proper liscensed sex shop means\u00a0we have to make do with a small branch of ann summers, but this serves very well (apart from the fact the lighting is a bit bright in there its fine)<\/em><\/p>\n