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In our last post I mentioned that I\u2019d point you at some sensible BDSM sex kit so that\u2019s exactly what I\u2019ll do right now.<\/p>\nIn our last post I mentioned that I\u2019d point you at some sensible BDSM sex kit so that\u2019s exactly what I\u2019ll do right now.<\/p>\n
BDSM equipment doesn\u2019t have to be complicated, expensive or scary. Well, not unless you want it to be anyway. For beginners it\u2019s often best to start off with the old clich\u00e9, a silk scarf, or perhaps as is very common at the moment a tie. In fact one of the sex toy manufacturers actually sells a grey scarf, can\u2019t think where they got that idea from \u2026<\/p>\n
One thing to watch out for if you do use a tie or scarf is that you may end up ripping or otherwise damaging it if things get a little passionate. So use something that you don\u2019t mind being damaged. Also, use simple knots that can be easily untied if you and your partner get a little twisted. Fumbling to untie a complex hitch when your partner complains \u201cI can\u2019t feel my hand\u201d is a bit of a passion-killer.<\/p>\n
If you move on from the basics you could try rope, but be careful, the stuff from your local DIY centre will be great for holding down a tarpaulin but is going to cut and burn skin when you use it in the bedroom. Choose a bondage rope<\/a> that is made for the job like this or even a pair of rope cuffs<\/a> perhaps, gentler than steel ones and practical too.<\/p>\n One of the most practical, popular and longest-lived designs of bondage sex toys is the Sportsheets Under The Bed Restraint System<\/a>. It simply works as an easy to use, reliable and discrete means of indulging your BDSM fantasies without bulky equipment that you can\u2019t hide when the family come to call. When not in use it easily tucks away under the mattress\/bed and is ready to use in just a few seconds. Of course there are other designs of bondage restraints<\/a> and you can find reviews of many of them here. That includes reviews of Bondage Tape<\/a>, another interesting and sensual way of kinking it up that has far more uses than tying each other up.<\/p>\n Within the BDSM to review<\/a> section you\u2019ll also see reviews of blindfolds and masks which are great for emphasising your power over your lover during bondage play while simultaneously heightening their other senses through depravation of sight. Try it, you\u2019ll like it. Hehehe.<\/p>\n BDSM is not just about restraint and sensory deprivation so you\u2019ll need something to tease your \u201cvictim\u201d with. The level of tease is up to you and your partner. The touch of your fingers may be enough for you both but even if you don\u2019t want to land some serious blows on their exposed flesh you should consider buying a good quality paddle or flogger<\/a>. These can be used to tease as well as strike your partner and as you get more of a taste for it you will find they are ready to serve as instruments of \u201cdiscipline too\u201d<\/p>\n Safe Words and Safe Signals<\/strong><\/p>\n One last thing. If you are going to explore this sort of play make sure that there is a signal, verbal or physical that the submissive partner can use to tell the dominant one that they really want to stop. If it\u2019s verbal choose a word you\u2019re unlikely to say while \u201cplaying\u201d. For example \u201cNo\u201d and \u201cPlease stop\u201d are not good choices as if you\u2019re pretending to be subjugated and punished you\u2019d be saying that sort of thing anyway as part of the role play. If it would be difficult or impossible to speak, for example if the submissive partner is wearing a gag then you need an physical action that says stop \u2013 agree all this before you start playing \u2026<\/p>\n Have fun.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" In our last post I mentioned that I\u2019d point you at some sensible BDSM sex kit so that\u2019s exactly what I\u2019ll do right now. BDSM equipment doesn\u2019t have to be … Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5,6,35,46,25],"tags":[4248,385,384,3875,3876,369,3873,3874,1413],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18360"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18360"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18360\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18367,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18360\/revisions\/18367"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18360"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18360"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18360"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}