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\"Samantha<\/a>Suze and I have both been experiencing a little stress recently and because of that we\u2019ve been looking for healthy outlets for our frustrations and anxiety. We\u2019ve just moved into a new house so there\u2019s plenty of scope to lose yourself in DIY and gardening particularly because the previous owners were terribly unskilled at hope improvement, rarely gardened and were a pair of lazy sods. On the upside we are uncovering a beautiful garden and the lovely home that hides under the botched DIY.<\/p>\n

So we have scope for losing ourselves in the physical and mental challenges we face away from the stress bits that are currently stalking us. The other way to de-stress is sex. That\u2019s fine if you\u2019re both about at the same time, say in the evenings but busy lives mean that during the day it\u2019s not always possible.<\/p>\n

There is of course going solo, or to be totally direct masturbation. A few mornings back I saw Suze had woken up a little tense so I told her to lay in bed while I made her breakfast. But before I made my way downstairs to the kitchen I reached into her bedside drawer and pulled out her Womanizer Clitoral Stimulator<\/a> which happens to be her current favourite and guarantees swift satisfaction every time. \u201cWhat do you want me to do with that?\u201d she asked. \u201cEnjoy yourself.\u201d I said.<\/p>\n

And she did because by the time I returned with her porridge and a cuppa she was far more relaxed and wearing a devilish little smile as if she had just indulged in a guilty pleasure. Which of course she had.<\/p>\n

The more I thought about it the more I realised that not only is masturbation for stress relief a great thing for adults but as adolescents the discovery of masturbation must have been great for my teenage angst. I know it didn\u2019t cure it completely but it must have helped because I do remember enjoying masturbation and wondering after the first time I tried it why I hadn\u2019t tried it before. I guess that if I hadn\u2019t started masturbating I would simply have been an even bigger bundle of anxiety and neuroses that I actually was.<\/p>\n

Not sure it it\u2019s the same for girls, I\u2019ll have to ask Suze. I assume it would have been the same for her because at that age you\u2019re a pleasure seeker and totally self-centred in a lot of ways so anything that releases endorphins like masturbation is going to be a hit and something that you\u2019re going to want to experience time and time again.<\/p>\n

So remember if today is getting you stressed, give yourself the gift of an orgasm. But not at your desk unless you have a very understanding boss.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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