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It\u2019s that time of year again when we all say we\u2019re going to do things and don\u2019t. Well in general that\u2019s why I don\u2019t make New Year\u2019s resolutions, because frankly you can decide to make a positive change in your life at any point in the year. You don\u2019t need an arbitrary date in a calendar created by humans to organise their lives around the non-congruencies of the planet\u2019s orbit and its rotational period.<\/p>\n
That said if you do feel the urge to make New Year\u2019s resolutions then make \u2018em good ones and stick to them. If you can benefit other\u2019s by keeping to your resolutions then all the better. And if that \u201cother\u201d is your partner of course a sexual New Year\u2019s Resolution ticks all the boxes.<\/p>\n
This is something that we all forget from time to time, especially if we\u2019re busy. Vary your foreplay, make your first physical advances to your partner in different places and situations and employ plenty of sensual techniques in the build-up to \u201cthe main event.\u201d<\/p>\n
Tell each other how horny you are at the supermarket, when you get home don\u2019t wait until you\u2019re naked to touch each other; And when you are try a bit of erotic massage to relax and stimulate each other.<\/p>\n
Break out of your habits, when you know what each other enjoys it\u2019s too easy to stick to that and get out of the habit of trying new things that you did earlier in the relationship. You can both be very happy with the status quo but even if you try things that don\u2019t quite work out the variety will enliven your sex and you may even open new doors for you and your partner to explore together.<\/p>\n
So what sort of new stuff am I talking about? Well, it can be a number of things from just trying a new position, using lube in imaginative ways, sex toys<\/a> or even role play. The choice is yours and even what you try falls a bit flat adding variety is always a fun experience in itself.<\/p>\n One of the things that has been high on people\u2019s to-do lists for several years, because of that certain book, is Bondage<\/a> and BDSM<\/a>. True BDSM isn\u2019t for everyone and bondage taken to its ultimate extremes can be a bit much for most people. However there are plenty of bondage products available online for different levels of experience as well as how-to guides for the more, erm, advanced techniques<\/p>\n Remember when you first had sex, more than likely it wasn\u2019t in bed. Even if your first experience of sex was in a conventional bedroom most of us have tried sex in different rooms in the house, outside and occasionally quite public places. I\u2019m not suggesting exposing yourself here or having sex where you can be seen by other people \u2013 that goes against one of the fundamental rules of sex as I see it, all participants, active or passive have to consent to being part of the sexual act. What you should consider is that sex in itself doesn\u2019t have to be horizontal, face to face and laying on a mattress. Sometimes the discomfort and awkwardness of sex elsewhere and in different orientations as it were adds to the experience.<\/p>\n Just think about it \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n Should I have to mention this one? We\u2019ve all done it alone and many have done it with their partner, often to their partner. If you haven\u2019t tried any or all of the above combinations then you should and if you\u2019ve stopped experimenting with masturbation in front of your partner or with your partner then maybe you should get back in the habit.<\/p>\n I hope that helps bring you a happy and indeed orgasmic New Year.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" It\u2019s that time of year again when we all say we\u2019re going to do things and don\u2019t. Well in general that\u2019s why I don\u2019t make New Year\u2019s resolutions, because frankly … Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":12074,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3,35,25],"tags":[4248,384,4177,113,2247],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19297"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19297"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19297\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19300,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19297\/revisions\/19300"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12074"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19297"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19297"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19297"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}3. Try Bondage and BDSM<\/h2>\n
4. Try Sex In Different Locations<\/h2>\n
5. Try Masturbation<\/h2>\n