{"id":8127,"date":"2010-07-16T12:49:27","date_gmt":"2010-07-16T12:49:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/alexsuze.com\/?p=8127"},"modified":"2010-07-16T10:43:32","modified_gmt":"2010-07-16T10:43:32","slug":"perception-of-sex-toys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/?p=8127","title":{"rendered":"Perception Of Sex Toys"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft\" style=\"margin: 5px;\" title=\"Sex Toy\" src=\"\/images\/vibropod.jpg\" alt=\"Sex Toy\" width=\"300\" height=\"315\" \/>I frequently find that the male attitude towards sex toys and women is that they start to feel competitive and metaphorically start to fluff up their feathers.\u00a0 Instead of toys being seen for what they are they become a threat to a male\u2019s potency for some reason.<\/p>\n<p>This behaviour has become more apparent since I started to chat on social networking sites which is a more immediately interactive forum than answering blog comments. To a degree writing a blog such as this one can be quite insular in terms of feedback.\u00a0 If no comments are left then knowledge and opinion isn\u2019t shared.\u00a0 That\u2019s why I enjoy the interaction on the social networking sites it gives you the opportunity to solicit comment from a group of like minded adults.<\/p>\n<p>A regular topic of conversation as it\u2019s part of my daily life, my job, is <a title=\"Testing Sex Toys\" href=\"http:\/\/sextoysbuzz.com\" target=\"_blank\">testing sex toys<\/a>.\u00a0 I can\u2019t count the number of times I\u2019ve written about testing a product and solicit the response \u201cyou need to give this toy a try\u201d or \u201cdon\u2019t you have a man that can take care of things?\u201d and even \u201cit can\u2019t be as good as the real thing\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Well, I\u2019ve got news for you.\u00a0 I can get off on a toy just as much as the \u201creal thing\u201d and I can have more than one orgasm a day so you no need worry that I won\u2019t want to get down and dirty with you when you get home.\u00a0 In fact if anything, I will be more in the mood and receptive to your advances.\u00a0 \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>People need to re-evaluate their opinion on toys and when I say people I really mean guys.\u00a0 They aren\u2019t going to steal your woman from you but they may encourage her to be more open and sexual in the bedroom.<\/p>\n<p>Try to be more accepting and look upon them as a sexual supplement rather than replacement, unless that is what\u2019s required of them.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve listed the three main applications for toys, if you have any other suggestions feel free to comment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pleasure for one:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We have all encountered times in our lives when there hasn\u2019t been a partner to fulfil our needs.\u00a0 I know I have.\u00a0 Even when we are single, as warm blooded human beings we have desires and needs and there is an array of toys for both males and females to pleasure us.<\/p>\n<p>A commonly used toy is the rabbit for the ladies and the males have a wide choice of masturbators. \u00a0I truly believe that having an orgasm in therapeutic, you feel more relaxed when you have come and have an overall sense of well being.<\/p>\n<p><strong>An accompaniment to a relationship:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And just because you have a partner doesn\u2019t mean that you both can\u2019t experiment with new pleasures.\u00a0 A simple massager can be used by both parties as part of foreplay to relax and ease away the tensions of the day as a prelude to sex.<\/p>\n<p>Or why not try a little mutual masturbation with toys, this can be very arousing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A sex drive supplement:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You may be in a relationship where your libidos are mismatched, he may want to indulge in sex more frequently than his partner or visa versa.\u00a0 If that is the case then a toy could be used to satisfy the needs of the more sexually active partner.<\/p>\n<p>I hope reading this post made some of you rethink your views on sex toys, they aren\u2019t the enemy, far from it.\u00a0 \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I frequently find that the male attitude towards sex toys and women is that they start to feel competitive and metaphorically start to fluff up their feathers.\u00a0 Instead of toys &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/?p=8127\" class=\"more-link\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3,35,25],"tags":[113],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8127"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8127"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8127\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8137,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8127\/revisions\/8137"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8127"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8127"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8127"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}