{"id":972,"date":"2008-03-27T07:43:35","date_gmt":"2008-03-27T07:43:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.alexsuze.com\/?p=972"},"modified":"2008-03-27T07:44:19","modified_gmt":"2008-03-27T07:44:19","slug":"hetero-sexual","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/?p=972","title":{"rendered":"Hetero-Sexual"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" vspace=\"5\" align=\"left\" width=\"250\" src=\"\/images\/lookoflove.jpg\" hspace=\"5\" alt=\"Suze\" height=\"273\" style=\"width: 250px; height: 273px\" title=\"Suze\" \/>Over the past couple of days Suze has got me thinking. Which women do I actually find attractive? Or perhaps more specifically what type of woman do I find attractive?<\/p>\n<p>It has to be women of course, because I&#8217;m straight. It would be nice to put myself in the position of being able to choose men I would sleep with but while I can appreciate a charming\/well-groomed\/intelligent\/sexy guy for what they are I can&#8217;t apply the feelings that arise from the innate attraction that I have towards women.<\/p>\n<p>When I look at or meet a woman the whole of my brain is active in deciding if I find her attractive. The emotional, intellectual and physical all play a part to dictate whether or not she pushes the right buttons for me. With a man I can understand why women might find an individual attractive because of his looks, mind or whatever, but I can&#8217;t feel the attraction.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the problem with being heterosexual I suppose. It would be so easy to try and work it out, but then it would be an intellectual exercise and attraction is not a wholly intellectual thing. If it were we&#8217;d have no need for dating sites. You&#8217;d just feed your characteristics into a computer and find your perfect match instantly.<\/p>\n<p>So I&#8217;m stuck with women LOL. Well I&#8217;d have to say that with a few exceptions I&#8217;d be fighting over the women Suze likes. I like a woman with character and strength, I don&#8217;t suffer the helpless damsel act, it makes me want to wretch. That doesn&#8217;t mean I have a problem with submissive women because they know what they want, to feel the hand of a dominant partner. What I do have a problem with is directionless girlyness.<\/p>\n<p>Because of a series of rather unfortunate and life-changing events over the last couple of weeks, lusting after women has not been at the forefront of my mind. There is no list ladies I&#8217;m lusting after.<\/p>\n<p>So if I were to have to choose a woman as the object of my desire I&#8217;d only have one answer at the moment.<\/p>\n<p>Suze.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Over the past couple of days Suze has got me thinking. Which women do I actually find attractive? Or perhaps more specifically what type of woman do I find attractive? &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/?p=972\" class=\"more-link\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/972"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=972"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/972\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=972"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=972"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alexsuze.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=972"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}