Fucking Me Fucking You – Ahaaaaa!

By | August 30, 2009

Touch UpI read the saying “Couples who play together stay together” somewhere and how true is that statement. Alex and I love to experiment it keeps things fresh and alive, enriching our relationship. I’m not saying that you have to do anything particularly wild like swinging or cuckolding but try something you’ve never done before, say once a month.

We were once a couple quite content in our comfort zone of the sexual practices we knew and loved. I’m a firm believer that you should try most things once and if it’s not for you then simply cross it off the list and mark it down to experience.

But at least you have now made an informed decision that you don’t like it. For example I didn’t think that I would enjoy light bondage and a light spanking every now and then. Let me tell you at the right time, say when you are being fucked doggy, a light slap on the ass is great.

Always have an open mind and let your imagination run free…

I have selected a range of goodies that you may wish to share with each other on one of those credit crunch nights in. A lot of fun can be had on little money and the bonding and closeness it brings is priceless.

I can’t recall the last time I played a board game, it would probably be a game of Scrabble roughly 20 years or more ago. And now when I think about it, I enjoyed playing and most of all thinking rather than staring inanely at the television. This sexy board game is a little different and you certainly wouldn’t want to play it with your parents. Lol

Once the mood is set and you are feeling relaxed and a little sexy, things can step up a little. You can enjoy caressing each other and practice massage. This massage set is delightful assault on the senses, you can savour the aroma of the fragrant oils as they heat up on your warm flesh. And enjoy the deep and loving massage your partner is giving you, rubbing away the aches and tensions of the day, bringing you both closer together and making you receptive to his attentions.

You could also try one of the massaging vibrators on the market, the vibration works deep in to those muscles. It may not be as sensual as hands but it does the trick making me putty in his hands. This one is contoured and angled just right for you to use on yourself or your partner.

Now it’s time for things to really heat up and the real naughty fun to begin. Why not try gently tying your partner to the bedhead. Creating an air of suspense and sexual tension between you. If you have a scarf why not create a make shift blindfold adding the sensory experience. Light bondage can be so arousing, to be under your partners control, at their mercy. The very thought is making the hairs stand up on the back of my neck.

If you like the feel of the silky bondage rope against your flesh you may wish to look in to practicing one of the many forms of rope bondage such as Shibari. It’s better than the boy scouts. 😉

If you like the feeling of restraint without the knot tying you could always opt for a set of wrist and ankle cuffs. Personally I like the convenience of this under the bed system. They are easy to use and can be left in situ even if you have guests coming round because they tuck nicely away waiting patiently for next time.

And why not give you and your lover a treat whilst you have them nicely restrained. You could use body paint to create a messages of love and then when you are finished lick every trace of the sweet and tasty body paint from their flesh. Add a little tasty twist to felatio and cunnilingus they could never accuse you of not being attentive again. 😉

Lube has come on in leaps and bounds, you can now get long lasting lubes containing silicone, tingling, warming and just plain old water based lube. But even more adventurous is the range of tasty edible lubes. These are not just designed with lubrication in mind but for licking from each other. Gone are the days of having to endure nasty tasting lube when you went down on your partner. They can now taste succulent and fruity.

Now he is hard and excited, raring to go but not just yet. There is an exciting addition he can enhance his penetrative skills with. The old boring cock ring is now a thing of history. This cock ring accommodates most sizes and includes a powerful bullet which will not only bring him off but you too.

If he is feeling adventurous you could try one of the beginners strap-ons. They are designed to be easy to use and none threatening in size. He will love the stimulation on his P Spot (prostate gland) and you will get aroused fucking him with it. I know I do.
I feel this is the ultimate in coupled toys because there has never been anything like it and there still isn’t. The We-Vibe is designed to be worn by the woman internally during intercourse. You both feel the vibrations coursing through your bodies. One end vibrates internally whilst the other stimulates your clitoris.