Fisting Virgin
And may I say I intend to stay that way. I’ve tried out all manner of sex toys and devices over the years but have never felt the need to indulge in fisting.
To me a cock, fingers, dildo or vibe are all sufficient to bring me off. I don’t need to have something fill me to capacity and beyond for it to feel good.
It also raises the question, “if you become accustomed to having a full hand shoved up your you know what how will you ever feels satisfied with the vanilla lifestyle most of us have?”
Surely compared to a hand, a dildo, butt plug or cock for that matter are not even going to touch the sides.
Nice that they thought about the hygiene aspect by creating this Fisting Glove. I think I’ll stick to cock it may not be extreme but it does the job for me. 😉
The vagina’s pretty darn elastic, Suze. It snaps back into shape just about instantly. I’ve been fisted regularly for 2+ years now and can assure you that the “sides” of my vagina still touch. 🙂
I think sometimes something just has to be experienced to be understood. Handplay like vaginal fisting is one of the most tender, intimate acts we have ever indulged in. It doesn’t have to happen with any great hullaballoo or special equipment – we’ve been married more than twenty years, we don’t use gloves just lube and it’s always just an extension of the handplay we’re engaged in at the time.
As far as your questions about size – I can go from being stretched around his hand to being squeezing his cock in a “death grip” within seconds – don’t let that concern you. And yes you can be very happily satisfied with regular sized anything after indulging in fisting.
Nobody “needs” fisting but it’s nice thing to do. 🙂
Wow. I find this to be one of the most sex-negative, judgmental posts I’ve read in a while. To me, it falls in the same category of “but if you use a vibrator, you’ll never enjoy non-toy involved sex again” or “you’re not a real lesbian if you use a dildo to emulate straight sex.”
Really?
I mean, I’m glad that a cock, fingers, dildo or vibe are all sufficient to bring you off. While I’ve never gotten off from a flesh on blood cock, I can assure you that a cock, fingers, dildo or vibe are all sufficient to bring me off as well. Look how much alike we are.
Except I’ve been fisted. Quite a bit actually. And it in no way hampers my ability to get off from any other methods. In fact, I usually can’t come from fisting unless I’ve come from other ways first. My partner has also been fisting (by yours truly). Actually, last night, I fisted her for a good half hour. And then she wanted to come, so I fucked her really hard with 2 fingers so she could. She *can’t* come from fisting.
To me, fisting is not a vanilla vs. kink thing. It’s not a straight vs dyke thing. What it IS, at least in my book, is another fun sexual activity to add to your repertoire only when there is an inordinate amount of trust and chemistry. It does nothing permanent to your cunt, but it does send me flying high, makes me feel closer to my partner, and makes me moan on a primal level.
In the same way I would never tell people how to have PIV intercourse, because I don’t have it, I would hope you wouldn’t attempt to scare people with rumors of what *could* happen with fisting when you’ve never tried it yourself.
I am NOT a fisting virgin, and my cunt can crack walnuts. Maybe check your information in the future?
Essin’ Em, I re-read Suze’s post because of your comment and have to say that you seem to have read a different post from the one I can see above.
Expressing the opinion that a sexual practice, act or even unusual fetish is not for you doesn’t mean that you think it isn’t for other people.
The point raised regarding whether fisting changes your receptiveness to other forms of stimulation or permanently changes a woman’s anatomy is posed as a question because it is just that. A question from someone who has not been fisted.
Your extrapolations “but if you use a vibrator, you’ll never enjoy non-toy involved sex again†or “you’re not a real lesbian if you use a dildo to emulate straight sex.†Is rather silly as I can’t see how you arrive there from Suze’s post.
Rumours? Scare people? People ask questions because they don’t know the answer and are looking for one.
If fisting is something that you enjoy then that’s great but please don’t try and make points where there are none to be made. And don’t accuse someone of being judgemental when they are actually asking a question.
I apologize for my crank, but I did ask around before posting to see if others agreed at what I inferred from it. Saying words like “surely,” especially coming from long respected members of the blog community, makes things seem as though they are so. So surely my vaginal sides would never touch again APPEARS to me (key word; appears – intention may not have been that, certainly) to be fear mongering…especially give that she’s never experienced this “extreme” act (which to many may not be extreme, but that’s a whole other discussion).
I’m glad you’ve left this space open for discussion…I’d love to see where it goes 🙂
Essin’ Em, going where? You like fisting, we’ve never tried it and never claimed otherwise.
You’ve inferred something that wasn’t there from words that can, if you are so inclined, be read in one way or another – though to me they seem perfectly clear; i.e. Suze posed a question, and that was further clarified by my response to your original comment.
Long respected? Well, thanks for that. We like to think we’re respected because we don’t tell people what to do and only speak from actual experience. So we’ll leave others to speak authoritatively about fisting.
AAG and ell’s comment I can understand. They express their views in response to the post’s question. However you seem to be intent on reading something into the text that isn’t there – despite my attempt at clarification.