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When is it acceptable to stare at a woman’s arse?
I was at a client yesterday and one of their male staff was apparently staring at the backside of one of the female staff. Not glancing, staring. Not attempting to make out it was anything other than a full-on letch by someone who was old enough to be the girl’s father. Just watching intently.
Appreciating a woman’s body is one thing but to stand watching in a rather creepy way (as he apparently did) …
Funny isn’t it, for whatever reason, maybe the type of person he is (not the most popular in the office for a number of reasons) I find his conduct repugnant. Yet I look at porn all day.
It’s all down to consent again I suppose, she didn’t consent to be ogled, she wasn’t dressed provocatively and therefore “gagging for it”. It’s the “Eeeeewww! What’s going through his mind?” that is the problem here I suppose.
Double standards? Hypocrisy on my part? I hope not. If someone willing puts themselves in a position to be ogled and I ogle them then it’s different from this situation.
Hi,
The similar situation which confuses me is t-shirts with messages/pictures on, a couple of times while going about my merry way I taken a second to read an interesting t-shirt only to be accused of ogling the chest of the wearer, come on if you didn’t want me to look don’t make it so interesting or maybe I just look like a perv ( my lady says I do not by the way).
Love the site by the way keep up the dirty work.
Gray