Going Down
Sometimes I really do wonder what goes on in some bloke’s heads. We were watching TV the other day when a presenter said that he wasn’t too keen on going down on his partner, or women in general for that matter.
WHAT?
I watched this and felt my jaw drop, a modern guy, host of a well known sex-related show doesn’t like ploughing the pink furrow? I thought I must have misheard, but no, he said he wasn’t very keen on the idea.
So I thought, let’s weigh this up from my point of view.
Pros:
- It’s intimate, I don’t just stick my head in anyone’s crotch. SO ladies if you find me with my head down there I must think something about you.
- It’s fun, I find both parties enjoy it. I don’t claim to be the world’s best at it, but I’ve never had any complaints and I have had a few compliments.
- It’s tastes, smells and feels divine.
- The reaction you get from your partner is gratifying, and a real turn on for me.
Cons:
- None.
Pretty clean cut I think you’ll agree, well it is for me.
As for others, what possible reason could they have for not wanting to indulge in the administering of a good tongue lashing?
Perhaps they don’t like the idea of putting their mouth near someone’s “toilet bits”. In that case get her to have a wash. That was difficult wasn’t it?
Or perhaps they don’t feel confident in their technique. Look mate, if you’re reading this you know who you are and my email address is on the sidebar, I’ll send you tips. However practice makes perfect, so find a patient lady and …
There’s no way you can’t enjoy the aroma and the taste, it’s just so feminine and exciting.
Now I’m not saying that any of this is the reason he doesn’t like doing it, but there are ways to get over this irrational aversion to cunnilingus. I’m sure Suze would let him practice on her, again and again, until he got it right. And I’m betting he doesn’t mind her giving him a bit of attention downstairs. Hmmmmm?
“Alex, what were you saying about cunnilingus?” 🙂
Yep, have to agree……no cons….
ploughing the pink furrow? You have such a way with words LOL!!!
I was with someone like that…it isn’t a good feeling, because it seems to make the woman feel gross. Maybe that is a reason? Maybe he thinks …okay no, he just does not.think.
Ohh say it loud and say it proud!!
I’ve heard of some guys with the same problem. Maybe it’s the male version of women disgusted by giving a bj? I don’t know.
Perhaps they had a bad experience with it and are no willing to try again. I’m not judging but it’s frustrating if the other partner is eager for getting some.
Hooorah for ORAL!
btw the regs need to show suze some love at 25 peeps…. she has dropped out of the top 5….. lets put her back at #1!~
oh and one of my favorite activites is riding the Mr. then licking him clean…….. if I am not willing to go there how can except him to.
I think oral sex comes with age. When I was younger I had no desire to either give or receive. Now you can’t stop me or Mr. Sign 😉
There ought to be desensitization clinincs at sex research faculties lol..seriously.
Times I’ve come across aversions, the person on the other end has never offered a valid reason, leaving me to think of the Freudian elements. A person, namely a female, is bound to come across a male at some course of her single life who expects fellatio, but is less willing to reciprocate, and one of the worse things is trying to coax a person to perform something that they find unappealing. Even if they do, do it, each motion/caress can tend to express their inherent dislike and it’s near impossible to try and convince an older man (who has never done it, and has developed an aversion for cunnilingus) to do it. The other thing, the modern need for clean shaven vulvas is also something that minimizes a woman’s scent as well (waxed pussies work on that level too). No pubic hair, no way for the aroma to get ‘trapped’, and that’s something that concerns me (the bald pussy phenomenon). It’s as though adults who develop this preference, want a pussy, but they don’t want its fragrance.
i need to find a man who likes it…..for some reason, i am always performing and rarely receiving….lol. definitely not fair.
I totally agree with you, Alex. It has to be, for me, the most wonderous aspect of a sexual relationship. After licking my lover’s lower lips, I wish I didn’t have to wash my face and wash away the scent. Sometimes diet can adversely affect the taste, but normally, it’s the sweetest in the world. If only I didn’t have to breathe ….
Anastasia, you and I are on the same page here (well, the same screen!). If given the choice between performing cunnilingus and receiving fellatio, I’d choose the former, hands (and head) down. As for pubic hair, I tried shaven, didn’t like it. When it grew back, I complemented her. The furrier, the better.
darkpixie, if only I wasn’t taken ….
Cheers,
Rambeau