Double Life
I love writing this blog and letting you all in on events in my personal life and opening the door to our bedroom to share with you our most intimate discoveries and moments. But there are times when I would love to be able to talk freely about this site. After all I’m bloody proud of what we do here. 😉
But the truth of the matter is that we can’t reveal ourselves to either our close friends, family or work colleagues. The reality of the situation is that our online lives and our real lives must have a degree of separation at least for now.
I can’t count the number of times I have wanted to refer to a piece I posted here at work when discussing sexual things at work with the girls. The other day I nearly did come right out and say “you should have read the article I posted about that on the site”, OMG I can’t imagine how I would have gotten out of that predicament. Lol
I’m sure the girls at work would be in shock if they knew the “real” me instead of my “professional” me.
It was difficult enough actually getting around where we were going for our recent 4 day break. I had to come up with a resort which I knew in case I should be asked any difficult questions. In the end I told everyone I was going to Scarborough. 🙂 I was dreading them asking me about any of the bars or places of interest. I haven’t been for about 6 years. I know it wasn’t the best choice of venues but it was the best I could come up with.
After all I couldn’t tell them the truth…I could just imagine myself saying “we have a couple of tickets to the Adults Only Show in Birmingham. Ben Dover may be there!” 🙂 I’m not saying that the girls at work are prudish but I think they would probably get the wrong idea about me if they knew. And remember I’ve got my eyes on the busty blonde one. 😉
No better they don’t know. They did ask a few questions upon my return to work but I managed to answer them but I’m waiting for someone to mention the photos. Does anyone have any current pictures of Scarborough sea front about October time? Lol
PS: Alex has posted a couple of images from the show on A-Rouse.com.
Tags: Adults Only Show, secret lives, double lives, sex blogging, adult blogging
I sometimes catch myself going to mention the blog and have to stop myself too. Like you, our blog life and real life have to remain separate – wouldnt it be nice to not have to watch what you say.
Ms SD
Oh I just realised you’re one of my colleagues. I won’t tell anyone who you are.
LOL
Of course, YOU know I’m kidding but this could happen. Better not give too much of detail about work and colleagues, even appealing busty ones.
🙂
i know what you mean about keeping the blog separate…a few real people i know actually know about the blog…but if it became common knowledge…well, not sure what people would think of me then. lol. xoxo
Totally understandable. Can’t even imagine if my work buddies found out V and I want to try swinging and I have a dirty girl blog…
My only other friend that knows – is my best guy friend. But I am not sure he even reads the blog…lol.
In some ways, I suppose it can be kinda “kinky” to have secrets that you can’t tell others about. I bet MANY are the same. But they do not tell.
Ms SD, it would be wonderful to share everything with friends but it just wouldn’t be a good idea. At least we can share with each other.
Anon, it takes time to build up readership and a lot of hard work but you will get there eventually. I’m with you on leaving town. Lol
Froggy, I just can’t stop myself from sharing. 😉
DP, you are lucky to be able to trust your friends with your secret. Not sure that I could. 😉
EC, true secrets are best kept when it comes to revealing you most intimate thoughts and escapades as we do here. 😉