Would I Share Her?
I didn’t quite realise just how much thought Alex’s post about getting it on with Busty would bring about. I’ve wanted to get in to her pants for weeks now and she has done nothing to change that desire.
Only…when Alex wrote the other day about me and her getting it on and how he would like to be involved…well, it started me thinking.
Would I want the relationship (hypothetical at the moment) with Busty and myself to extend outside of a pure girl-on-girl thing. Until now I hadn’t really included Alex in this naughty desire of mine to get it on with my fellow co-worker. It had been all about me and her. 😉
Now it was apparent that despite the fact that Alex, in common with most men, would love to watch me making out with another girl, he would also like to be involved. This scenario is not one that I’d considered and thought-through .
Do I want to share her with Alex? And do I want Alex to fuck her? I’m not sure. This all felt really natural and good until I started thinking about him being involved. Could I handle him fucking this other girl?
I suppose you don’t really know until the moment presents itself and in a way I am rather jumping the gun. But I suppose these things do need to be carefully considered prior to the event so as not to cause any embarrassment or jealousy.
The question I really need to address is “Would I be jealous of him fucking Busty?”, I suppose my gut reaction to this question is “Yes, of course I would…I love him” but part of me says “If you are sharing the girl, then what is the problem?”.
Quite a dilemma really when you think about it. Which I really shouldn’t have done. Lol It only makes my head hurt.
I mean, would I be content if both Alex and I shared the “third” or would the little green jealousy monster creep in. Personally, I would like to think that I am old enough and secure enough in our relationship and the commitment we have to each other, that I could handle it.
Who really knows, until they are faced with the opportunity. And lets face it, this situation doesn’t crop up every day, does it?
Has anyone else out there got desires to bring another in to the bedroom? If so how did you decide this was right for you both and if you have gone along with it, how have you coped with the jealousy aspect?
That’s me, always eager to explore new things and getting myself in to trouble … but the best kind of trouble. 😉
V and I thought about it. Didnt ever get to that point though. Is a nice thought, but I am not sure I would want to take it outside of fantasy mode.
DLG and I have shared another girl in the bedroom on a number of occassions. She was actively bisexual long before I came along, and rather than her keep such occasional liaisons a secret, we agreed that I was completely happy with her having sex with another girl, so long as I was included from time to time. We talked it through a lot before the first time, discussing barriers, and signals we could use if jealousy crept in, and after that first time, it fell into place very easily, and now just seems natural and fun. I think that discussion needs to take place, and you need to stick to whatever limits you decide between each other – at the moment the one barrier we have is that I don’t fuck the other girl – touching, licking, stroking, sucking all okay, but no actual vaginal penetration with my cock. I initially thought that might be frustrating, but quickly realised that for me the experience was much more of a voyeuristic one – I didn’t have any need to fuck the other girl, I just wanted to be there touching them both on the bed as they make each other come. Threesomes have an intensity all of their own, and I think some of the best sex I’ve had has been in such groupings with her – there’s nothing quite like the experience of fucking her deliciously as the other girl cums all over her face or fingers…
But yes, absolutely, jealousy needs to be conquered, so you have to take things step by step, and ease into the idea of it, and see where it takes you. If you think you’re going to be at all jealous, it might not be for you. It might be worth posing the question to Alex – if there was another man in the bed (pick me! lol), how would he deal with that?
roger xx
EC, I have only had a couple of trysts with girls in the past but I am certainly open to offers. A girl/girl encounter is so sensual and special.
I have many fond memories. 😉
DLB, Thanks for the advice. i’m not new to the girl-on-girl thing, it’s just a while since I had the opportunity.
But I’m working on it. 😉