Spanking That Pussy
What is it with the fascination for pussy spanking in porn? I find myself being totally put off by it because I can imagine being the recipient of such treatment.
The guy can be giving her the best cunnilingus she has ever had and a finger fuck to die for but should he start to slap her across her pussy I’m immediately turned off and enraged.
I want to take hold of his cock in my left hand and give him a continuous barrage of side swipes with my right hand. There you go, how was that for you? I’d ask as he clutches his battered penis.
This particular predilection goes hand in hand with grabbing the girl round the throat during sex. It’s not passionate it’s a passion killer as it verges on coercion and that’s just not on.
Wow, Suze – a bit close-minded and judgmental, I’d say. Open your mind to the possibility, which is my personal experience, that it’s the female who enjoys and requests light pussy slapping, especially after some good warm up with tongue and fingers, and it’s the female who enjoys and requests throttling, which MASSIVELY enhances her orgasm.
Everybody likes all different kinds of things – celebrate it all as long as it’s consensual and people are finding joy and release in their sex.
Is it judgemental to hold an opinion and express it? In my experience, having asked sexual partners to try both practices to see what they are like, I find they leave me cold. A spank to the legs, a crop to the ass those I find arousing when I’m in the right mood. I also enjoy being pinned down sometimes but only as an expression of dominance. I also find a lot of BDSM play very arousing but the pussy slap and the throat grab are lost on me.
I’m glad you’ve found a partner who enjoys the same things you do (that’s the basis of a great relationship) but in my experience, the experience of my sexual partners and that of my friends (male and female) I’ve yet to find anyone who liked either of the types of play I mentioned. You’re one lucky guy, and your incredulity shows what a diverse sexual world we live in and we should celebrate that.
I think that is a bit unfair to call Suze close-minded Sunlover! Pussy slapping and throat clutching are a type of fetish! I’ve also experimented with both with a previous partner and neither of us enjoyed the experience! I’m glad that you have found someone who DOES enjoy this type of fetish, but like all fetishes, they are not for everybody!