Smooth Shaved Pussy
It’s nice to surprise your partner from time to time. It doesn’t have to be a big thing, or expensive, just unexpected. When we first moved into a flat together … Read More
Category: Opinion
Masturbation With No Strings Attached
Being in the job that I am it’ll come as no surprise to you that I’ve given a lot of thought to what tops the list of male masturbators in … Read More
5 Sexual New Year’s Resolutions
It’s that time of year again when we all say we’re going to do things and don’t. Well in general that’s why I don’t make New Year’s resolutions, because frankly … Read More
Promiscuity In The Good Old Days
There was a time when promiscuity was somewhat dangerous. No barrier contraception meant unwanted pregnancy was a constant risk. The transmission of STDs between you and your partner, especially partners … Read More
And Here’s To The Next 10 Years!
Yes, it really is 10 years since the creation of this site. Who would have thought that a need to share our thoughts and experiences on sex and sexuality would … Read More
Button Flies
We had some good news last week so a lot of the tension that has been with us for several months has started to dissipate. That doesn’t mean we’re at … Read More
The Swinging Neighbourhood
In the 1970s there was a lot of talk of swinging. Back then the cliché was a fruit bowl in the middle of the coffee table with car keys thrown … Read More
“This Morning” Bondage Shocker
Well, the FSOG bandwagon is approaching full speed isn’t it. Even ITV’s “This Morning” woke everyone up by featuring a “Beginner’s Guide to Bondage” and immediately providing the doltish “journalists” … Read More
Teeth on My Cock
Who doesn’t like a good blow job? Well some women for a start but that doesn’t seem to bother some men. For some, probably because of porn and some men’s … Read More
Out For a Good Time
I was asked a few days ago a pretty obvious question, “Are men who visit escorts cheaters?” My first reaction is to pose two questions in response: Are those men … Read More
When Your New Girlfriend Tells You She’s Bisexual
Moving in with your girlfriend is a big step. It’s a point in your life and your relationship where you find out about yourself, about her and about your relationship. … Read More
Talking Dirty With Hot Girls
I’ve done a lot of things since I’ve been involved in the adult industry and not all of them are public knowledge. That’s not because I’ve done anything I’m not … Read More
Moving With Sex Toys
One of the logistical problems of being in the sex toy reviewing business is that whenever anyone comes round you have to make sure the house is clear of adult … Read More
Sex With No Squeaks
It’s very easy to become accustomed to something that is glaringly obvious to others and to a certain degree that’s exactly what happened with us and our bed. We had … Read More
eroFame, Five Years And Going Strong
Since the first show way back in 2009 Alex and I have only missed one eroFame show. It was the first to be held in its current venue the Messe … Read More
The Politics of Threesomes
A large proportion of couples will at one point or another consider a threesome. Whether both partners consider it at the same time and whether they voice their curiosity about … Read More
The Porn? It’s Blowing In The Wind
I decided to have a clear-out, and that includes a huge stash of magazines. No, not that sort of magazine! There’s no Fiesta, Mayfair, Razzle or Playboy in the pile … Read More
Trichophilia, A Hair Fetish or Just Good Instinct?
I’ve always liked having my hair played with, I also like running my fingers through a lover’s hair. Yet while I find both of those activities, appealing, sensuous, and often … Read More
Canada Here We Come!
Losing my father towards the end of last year awoke something in me. I decided that I was going to live life to the full. He was taken from me … Read More
A Typical Day At The Office
Do I have a typical day at the office? Well it depends what day it is because for much of the week I’m working as a project manager and analyst … Read More