Do Want To Get Naked And Whipped?
It’s a fact that some people are from a very early age predisposed towards a BDSM lifestyle. By inclination, upbringing or a combination of both they know that they need to be sub, Dom, bottom, Top or switch. Thoughout their lives they may struggle to find the right partner and where they fit in within that relationship, they may take years to recognise that the BDSM aspect of their sexuality and personality is just that. However at the end of it all they know that they are different ans special in some way.
What about the rest of us? There are not many couples who have not played BDSM games in the bedroom to a greater or lesser degree. From light bondage to flogging many vanilla couples have played with BDSM themed bedroom fun.
I can remember when we first tried it, years ago. It was well before we got into this sex blogging malarkey and the thought of having two whips and a riding crop at the side of the bed as we have now would have seemed laughable.
How about you guys, when did you adventurous vanillas first try bedroom BDSM?
We have done it a number of times. I dont like the face mask but being the sub sometimes is very exciting.A nice change
jeeze,
where do you begin?
i taught her to come on her own, without being touched, by tying her to the headboard and whispering in her ear, telling her what was happening, and what was going to be the result.
then i wrapped her from feet to neck in plastic wrap so she couldn’t move. put her on the bed. rubbed her tits and head, and told her what was going to happen. it did. on her own she came again and again.
ropes are great.
giving up some control is great.
being unsure of the events to come is great.
when she takes control and ties me and is in charge it is great.
being bit and hit, being helpless, being unsure, being blindfolded, all are great.
when she is sure she is done and i keep it on full steam ahead and remind her that i am the one who knows when she is done… it trips her over the edge and sends her to places no man or woman has ever sent her. i have the power to make her cum or make her wait. when she has to hold it off it grows and blossoms into something much larger than the norm. she loves it and i do too. and she can do the same thing to me.
it is not very time. but it is something that comes out when needed, or wanted. and there is always long embracing and holding and loving after it is done.
weird
Anne was a lovely young lady with a very open mind.. I met her when I was 21 and stayed with her for a little over a year..I was a soldier in the us army at the time and was built pretty good (6 foot 210 pounds with a 32 inch waist).. I was always in control of my life but she taught me how to give up that control..It started all innocent enough.. Had just come in from the field.. After a long hot shower and a couple of drinks just laying in the bed with Anne laying quietly against me.. She had on her bathrobe and I was laying there naked as she slowly slid her hands up one arm and tugged it gently above my head and then repeated this with the other arm.. I felt something cold and metallic on my wrists and heard a clicking sound.. Anne then stood next to the bed and took off the robe revealing a leather corset type of outfit.”mmm ” I said as I brought my arms down to grab her to discover that I had on a pair of handcuffs.. “ok whats going on here ?” I demanded.. Anne slapped my face and told me “shut your mouth slave”.. I was shocked at first but decided what the hell , would try anything once..From there she showed me why sometimes giving all control to someone else could be quite enjoyable..